To give my opinion If I get married I personally will not take my husband's last name. I know some people said it was silly,but our names
will be hyphenated. It's the only
fair way I see. I don't see why I
have to give up
part of my identity, a name I was given at birth,but
he doesn't. It's not like it's mandatory in the first place. It's a choice. If my husband to be gets pissed about this then he has one of two choices. Him and his sexist ego can take a hike
or he can deal with it like an adult, and not a five year old having a tantrum.
I also know some would argue that it's technically my fathers last name anyway. To that I say I had no control on what my mother chose to do when I came out of the womb. All I know is that this is
my name now. It was at birth and it will be so at death. I will not give up part of my identity just because of some outdated tradition. Besides all my important info is in the name I was born with. My social security number, my high school diploma, my college degrees, my bank accounts etc.
If a man wanted to take his wife's name that's fine with me. As is a women taking her husband's. Just for
me personally I'll prefer any future husband and I to hyphenate. Like I said it's
fair. He gets to have his name linked to me,but I get to keep what I was born with at the same time.