No, it's okay; I appreciate your opinion. That septum ring I had in was the one that was put in when I had the piercing done, so I couldn't take it out for about 12 weeks due to the piercing being in the healing process. I've since replaced it with a much smaller septum ring with small balls so it doesn't look all clunky like it does in the picture.
I personally don't think guys suit having both ears pierced. Not to be homophobic and all that but it really just makes them look gay. I think if you have small balls on the snakebites, they look fine. Then again, that is limiting it to only one set of snakebites (I'm a hypocrite, I know), and also, only some people can pull it off right. Tbh, I was never really aware that I do pull them off until people on here told me so. :/ I didn't like how much the balls on my snakebites cluttered my face up so I replaced them for small, neat ones. I feel much better about it and they look a lot better and don't scream for attention.