re: Final Fantasy VIII - "collect all the hot dogs"
Aerith doesn't die until well into the game (spoiler), obviously he's going to be upset. If you became really good friends with someone and they died you'd be pretty upset too. Squall on the other hand is always moaning, not only that but he's a one-dimensional character.....All he does for the rest of the game is mope about a girl he just met dieing....wow people die!
Squall, however, just is a little insecure because he lost Ellone at such a young age.