Ok. So I need advice but first:
Backstory: There was this girl who I got really close to during the last weeks of my senior year. We became bf/gf during summer. We got really close and it was pretty serious (or so I thought). This all happened really quickly (about 3 months.) Then college started and she moved away to go to college. We tried to make it work. (Long distance relationships suck!) and it didn't so we broke up. We said we'd be best friends forever but everyone knows that's really impossible. We stopped talking a couple days after the break up. (Haven't talked to her since but she sent me a "Merry Christmas" text the other day. ((I didn't respond))
Ok so heres the dilemma though. Her friends are also my friends and we're all pretty much best friends. Well now I don't talk to her and I guess she told one of the friends (that is also my friend but has known my ex longer) that we weren't talking and that she was upset that we weren't. Now that friend is upset with me because I'm not talking to my Ex and it's making my ex sad. (Like I give a fuck.)
Me and this friend (who is now upset with me.) are like pretty good friends. I don't wanna lose a friendship over a stupid ex. So what's you guys' and girls' thoughts? Comments?
What should I do?
(Exes are a pain in the ass.)
Backstory: There was this girl who I got really close to during the last weeks of my senior year. We became bf/gf during summer. We got really close and it was pretty serious (or so I thought). This all happened really quickly (about 3 months.) Then college started and she moved away to go to college. We tried to make it work. (Long distance relationships suck!) and it didn't so we broke up. We said we'd be best friends forever but everyone knows that's really impossible. We stopped talking a couple days after the break up. (Haven't talked to her since but she sent me a "Merry Christmas" text the other day. ((I didn't respond))
Ok so heres the dilemma though. Her friends are also my friends and we're all pretty much best friends. Well now I don't talk to her and I guess she told one of the friends (that is also my friend but has known my ex longer) that we weren't talking and that she was upset that we weren't. Now that friend is upset with me because I'm not talking to my Ex and it's making my ex sad. (Like I give a fuck.)
Me and this friend (who is now upset with me.) are like pretty good friends. I don't wanna lose a friendship over a stupid ex. So what's you guys' and girls' thoughts? Comments?
What should I do?
(Exes are a pain in the ass.)