Re: Why do chicks date jerks?
That isn't a nice guy, that's a doormat.
As for the topic itself: I just honestly don't know, for the life of me. I mean, really, if I was a woman, I would go for a 'nice guy' [or doormat] and make sure that you don't always have to be nice, just be there and let's have fun. But since I'm a guy, I guess I cannot understand.
For me, I'm nice to my woman, yet I intentionally start arguments. In a relationship, we should all find our frictions and just argue for fun. I don't like seeing women who get abused by her partner and yet expect everything to be okay, and I don't like women who is worshipped by her boyfriend because I find it horribly creepy. It's like the woman being their pet or the boyfriend being the woman's pet.
It's literally dominance that turns me off. I personally believe that women don't like to be dominant of someone [hence why they don't like nice guys], yet subconciously, they like to be dominated [hence they like jerks]. It also ties into the factor that the challenge to change them.
That isn't a nice guy, that's a doormat.
As for the topic itself: I just honestly don't know, for the life of me. I mean, really, if I was a woman, I would go for a 'nice guy' [or doormat] and make sure that you don't always have to be nice, just be there and let's have fun. But since I'm a guy, I guess I cannot understand.
For me, I'm nice to my woman, yet I intentionally start arguments. In a relationship, we should all find our frictions and just argue for fun. I don't like seeing women who get abused by her partner and yet expect everything to be okay, and I don't like women who is worshipped by her boyfriend because I find it horribly creepy. It's like the woman being their pet or the boyfriend being the woman's pet.
It's literally dominance that turns me off. I personally believe that women don't like to be dominant of someone [hence why they don't like nice guys], yet subconciously, they like to be dominated [hence they like jerks]. It also ties into the factor that the challenge to change them.