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Re: Why do chicks date jerks?
Oh my god, you are completely missing the point.
There is no 'bitching' being done, it's just a simple fact of life. The simple fact being, that it's a very unpleasant experience for alot of guys to get told no and watch another person who doesn't even care about their lady friend (and may treat her like crap) get the girl that they like.
It's upsetting, it's not fair, and there is nothing wrong in stating that. Just because things aren't supposed to be fair, doesn't mean that a person can't express otherwise.
Choosing a mate includes sexual attraction, yes. However, that isn't the only factor, and turning down someone who may be good for you without ever even trying at a relationship just because they aren't pretty, is shallow. That is why that is stupid.
They both amount to one guy who is disappointed, both amount to a certain degree of ignorance, and a certain degree of simple mindedness.
Likewise dating someone with which sexual attraction is your only real reason to being with them, is also shallow. Intimacy is only a part of establishing a healthy relationship.
Stop taking things out of context. :|
So your point is that it sucks for guys when a woman doesn't want them? Protip: no-one finds every person they know sexually attractive. Everyone has friends of the opposite sex that they aren't interested in romantically. Bitching about it is kind of pathetic. Just being a good friend doesn't automatically entitle you to a woman's interest, or make her a heartless bitch if she doesn't happen to requite your love.
Oh my god, you are completely missing the point.
There is no 'bitching' being done, it's just a simple fact of life. The simple fact being, that it's a very unpleasant experience for alot of guys to get told no and watch another person who doesn't even care about their lady friend (and may treat her like crap) get the girl that they like.
It's upsetting, it's not fair, and there is nothing wrong in stating that. Just because things aren't supposed to be fair, doesn't mean that a person can't express otherwise.
Choosing a mate includes sexual attraction, yes. However, that isn't the only factor, and turning down someone who may be good for you without ever even trying at a relationship just because they aren't pretty, is shallow. That is why that is stupid.
They both amount to one guy who is disappointed, both amount to a certain degree of ignorance, and a certain degree of simple mindedness.
Likewise dating someone with which sexual attraction is your only real reason to being with them, is also shallow. Intimacy is only a part of establishing a healthy relationship.
Stop taking things out of context. :|