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Exactly what the title says.
Why do women date men who treat them like garbage? Smart, funny, pretty women of all things.
How can a person have so little self respect that they do themselves such a disservice by being with someone who itemizes and belittles them?
I just had to drag a friend in from a bar for the third time this week because her boyfriend told her she looked like a slut, and she was sitting here crying about how much she loved him until she threw up and passed out. Now I've got puke and possibly urine on my couch.
This happens all of the time, and she never has anything positive to talk about when it comes to him unless it's one of her delusional "He's just having a hard time now, he'll change" moments.
Peep- No Mary, he's not going to fucking change. You've been dating for 3 years and he's been the same nasty ungreatful bastard since day one. You pay his bills, you take his crap, you're the only one with a job, you cook for him, wait hand and foot- then you come bitch to me- WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU!?
It's not even that she's the only friend that does this. All of my female friends, sans one, has a boyfriend like this. I realize that some of them have children, but staying with a man who is abusive isn't helping your child. That behavior is teaching your child that acting like that is okay. You want their father to be a part of their life, that's fine. He can see them every weekend and on holidays, hell do joint custody if it bugs you that much, but staying with the man who called you a whore when you were in labor, and busted your face wide open when you were pregnant and your one year old was right in front of you, is not helping your child, and it's not helping you.
You don't need him. In fact staying with him is just making things harder. Because not only are you dealing with your life, but you've forced yourself in to a position that causes you constant stress and discomfort.
WHY THE HELL DO WOMEN DATE DOUCHEBAGS!? Why do women STAY with them? Make excuses for them!? LIE for them? Lie to THEMSELVES for them? Abandon their CHILDREN for them?
Why? When the guy you're with has absolutely no positive qualities.
How can a person want so badly to be unhappy, or want so desperately not be alone that they settle for this?
It makes absolutely no sense.
DISCUSS
Why do women date men who treat them like garbage? Smart, funny, pretty women of all things.
How can a person have so little self respect that they do themselves such a disservice by being with someone who itemizes and belittles them?
I just had to drag a friend in from a bar for the third time this week because her boyfriend told her she looked like a slut, and she was sitting here crying about how much she loved him until she threw up and passed out. Now I've got puke and possibly urine on my couch.
This happens all of the time, and she never has anything positive to talk about when it comes to him unless it's one of her delusional "He's just having a hard time now, he'll change" moments.
Peep- No Mary, he's not going to fucking change. You've been dating for 3 years and he's been the same nasty ungreatful bastard since day one. You pay his bills, you take his crap, you're the only one with a job, you cook for him, wait hand and foot- then you come bitch to me- WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU!?
It's not even that she's the only friend that does this. All of my female friends, sans one, has a boyfriend like this. I realize that some of them have children, but staying with a man who is abusive isn't helping your child. That behavior is teaching your child that acting like that is okay. You want their father to be a part of their life, that's fine. He can see them every weekend and on holidays, hell do joint custody if it bugs you that much, but staying with the man who called you a whore when you were in labor, and busted your face wide open when you were pregnant and your one year old was right in front of you, is not helping your child, and it's not helping you.
You don't need him. In fact staying with him is just making things harder. Because not only are you dealing with your life, but you've forced yourself in to a position that causes you constant stress and discomfort.
WHY THE HELL DO WOMEN DATE DOUCHEBAGS!? Why do women STAY with them? Make excuses for them!? LIE for them? Lie to THEMSELVES for them? Abandon their CHILDREN for them?
Why? When the guy you're with has absolutely no positive qualities.
How can a person want so badly to be unhappy, or want so desperately not be alone that they settle for this?
It makes absolutely no sense.
DISCUSS
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