Help/Support ► Stupid reproductive system!

[TheFreeshooterII]

Okay, I'm pretty sure I didn't spell reproductive right, but right now I could care less.

Well I'll make this part very brief. A few weeks ago, me and my boyfriend went out, got drunk and had sex. Next thing you know, I'm pregnant, fancy that. I only just found out yesterday by a doctor and ever since then I have been freaking out because of the smallest things. Maybe because of the mood swings that comes with being pregnant or because of my usual self worring about tiny things.

First off, I finally told my Mum last night, and seriously, she's been cray ever since. Talking to herself, acting like it means nothing that I'm going to be a 15 year old mum. I mean, after she came out of her room (after I had told her she went in there for awhile) the first thing she says to me is congradulations. And although she spends barely anytime at home and as a normal teenager, could care less about her, I'm really worried.

Second, I'm pretty sure I want to keep the baby, regardless of how young I am. I practically walked into this, and this is my punishment. But I'm not sure if my boyfriend (the father) knows that I want to keep it yet, and I don't want to do anything to loose him. He has already stood by me this far, and even after I told him it was okay to leave, he didn't.
I am against abortion (I think it's the worst thing in the world) and the idea of giving up my child to somebody terrifies me.

I'm not really worried about my eduation, Mum and I had already decided before all this that I could be home schooled.

Thirdly, I'm worring about the stupidest(sp?) things. Like what am I going to name it, what if it has some terrible desease and all these other crazy questions that I shouldn't even be worring about right now.

Honestly, I don't expect anyone to reply to this thread. I just needed to vent.

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Atteniong whoring = Not my style =)

Ive Helped Out 2 Friends With This Problem, All i Say is Dont Worry Yourself Over Things In The End You Have a Healthy Born Child No Matter What Age Your At
I Wish You The Best! :wink:

 

[Derogon]

Ive Helped Out 2 Friends With This Problem, All i Say is Dont Worry Yourself Over Things In The End You Have a Healthy Born Child No Matter What Age Your At
I Wish You The Best! :wink:

Yeah the baby might be healthy but what of her? I mean her body might not talk the birth of the baby.

 

[WilliamTheWise]

Well, I don't know what to say. If my GF got prego IDK what I would do.
Well staying strong mentally and physically in the next few months is important.
There may be days you wake up and hate youself for what happened that night, but you have to stay strong.
Start looking at parenting classes, They can reduce stress and a good source of info for the million of questions that will arise. Have your BF attend a few as well, It's important to keep him in the loop about this.
Go to the dr. regularly.

I wish you the best of luck.

 

[Crossroads]

My Mum doesn't see the point in grounding me. My Dad thinks I'm grounded though XD

XD

 

[Hellpark]

My Mum doesn't see the point in grounding me. My Dad thinks I'm grounded though XD

You care about being grounded when you are pregnant? I am sad to see that you reproduced, honestly. Use the old clothes hanger trick.

 

[<3]

I dont give a shit when I'm grounded. I just leave the house anyway. Lol.

 

[Crossroads]

You care about being grounded when you are pregnant? I am sad to see that you reproduced, honestly. Use the old clothes hanger trick.

I asked the question. Kind of as a joke. No need for that comment. lol

 

[Bukkake Sensei]

Because in the small town I live in, drinking/smoking (I don't smoke by the way) is what young teenagers do. We rebel.

...rebel against what? Proper organ health?

 

[Shuri]

Really, the only thing that bothers me in that whole situation is that you consider your baby a punishment. You're bringing a life into this world; for the sake of the future generation and all of the people your baby will eventually meet and become involved with at whatever level, please do not treat it like it shouldn't be there. I know other people have addressed this matter already, so I'll leave it at that.
Otherwise, I wish you all the best. I hope the father is supportive, but remember that this is his baby as well. He deserves to have a say in the outcome. That's my input as a male.

Shuri/Eli

P.S. I'll bet you're going to have a fun time when the baby's 15 and hanging this over your head. xD

 

[<3]

...rebel against what? Proper organ health?

The goveronment saying we're to young to do this and that.

Really, the only thing that bothers me in that whole situation is that you consider your baby a punishment. You're bringing a life into this world; for the sake of the future generation and all of the people your baby will eventually meet and become involved with at whatever level, please do not treat it like it shouldn't be there. I know other people have addressed this matter already, so I'll leave it at that.
Otherwise, I wish you all the best. I hope the father is supportive, but remember that this is his baby as well. He deserves to have a say in the outcome. That's my input as a male.

Shuri/Eli

P.S. I'll bet you're going to have a fun time when the baby's 15 and hanging this over your head. xD

I wound't even dream of treating it like it was a punishment. He/she will get all the world in the world, because I'm like that XD

Rofl! I sure will =)

 

[Crossroads]

You're taking this awfully well...

 

[<3]

I know. I think it's because I have a lot of support from my friends and family. I thought everything would go down hill from here, but it's going alright. Thank god. Lol.

 

[Ulti]

The goveronment saying we're to young to do this and that.

Since your body is still in development or just finished developing, I'd say they are right. But whatever. Have fun dying young. Think about abortion though. You certainly aren't ready to be a mother.

 

[Neglect]

I'm honestly disappointed. What you did was highly irresponsible and dangerous. You've jeopardized your future, you've cast this burden onto your parents, and all this happened simply because you wanted to be a little "rebellious"? Pardon me if this sounds like a scolding, but it irritates me greatly to see young people throw away their lives for a little fun. How are you going to go to college? Who's going to take of your child while you're at college? You're not going to financially support this child. Your parents will. You're an intelligent young girl, but this, this isn't very reflective of that. I'm not entirely sure you're even ready to be a mother, but I suppose your mind is made. Bah!

Anyhow, good luck to your and your child. I wish the best to you and your family. Listen though; be sure that this is what you want. Consider abortion as an option. It may be a dreadful thought to rid of a potential child, but you must, must, must consider your future. Again, the best to you.

 

[Lycanthrope]

Think about abortion though. You certainly aren't ready to be a mother.

 

[<3]

I'm honestly disappointed. What you did was highly irresponsible and dangerous. You've jeopardized your future, you've cast this burden onto your parents, and all this happened simply because you wanted to be a little "rebellious"? Pardon me if this sounds like a scolding, but it irritates me greatly to see young people throw away their lives for a little fun. How are you going to go to college? Who's going to take of your child while you're at college? You're not going to financially support this child. Your parents will. You're an intelligent young girl, but this, this isn't very reflective of that. I'm not entirely sure you're even ready to be a mother, but I suppose your mind is made. Bah!

Anyhow, good luck to your and your child. I wish the best to you and your family. Listen though; be sure that this is what you want. Consider abortion as an option. It may be a dreadful thought to rid of a potential child, but you must, must, must consider your future. Again, the best to you.

Why do you assume I was even thinking of going to University? Beause I'm not. I hate education and I think High school and a few tafe courses will be enough. And in my country we get benifits for having children, before you all go jumping to conclusions, the money will be spent on the baby and the baby alone.

And if I can't find anyone to look after the baby when both me and boyfriend are busy, its called day care or a baby sitter.

 

[Crossroads]

Hahaha that sounds about right.

 

[Johnny Stooge]

If I was your boyfriend I'd be on the first flight out to live with relatives in another state.

Abortion is not the work of the devil.

 

[Ulti]

So instead of being a hard and honest member of society, you are going to leech off it. I hate to be a bitch, but I really hope you miscarriage because you are not taking this at all seriously.

 

[Lycanthrope]

There is no fucking way you are either mature or responsible enough to mother a human being.