I'd have to agree that anyone who says "i don't care about looks" is full of shit.
Both are important.
Im Bi... So I look at everyone. And trust when I look at someone that's not of my taste of just extremely unnactractive. I will walk the other way. But if I see a really hot chick thats has such a bitchy attitude or extremly annoying, I will do anything to get her attention. Just for a one nighter... to be honest, when its just that, i look for what they have not for who they are.
I used to do that a lot with chicks, but i've stopped big time. I came to a point where I realized, that's wrong to use somebody. I mean, what if I was them? And I have, back in the day where I was young and naive, I would believe everything a guy would say. I would feel like crap the next day because i couldn't believe what i had just done. :/
You can say, I've grown out of that stage. And now I'm looking for more settled relationship. So I'm not really 'looking" for anybody, its just more of a whoever comes along situation. If the chemistry's right, go for it. and if not, oh well.
But now that I'm looking for someone that can settle... gotta be honest with you. Looks matter, but to a point. Back to what Pelafina says, if the they're beautiful from the inside.. they're going to be beautiful from the outside. I mean, one can tell what kind of attitude they have just by looking at them. For a girl, if she has a bitchy attitude, very clingy, annoying ect.. I'm not going to want to be with her, no matter how hot she is. Why should I have to settle for that? If I were with somebody like that, probably my most favorite part of the relationship will be to get her in bed. And overtime, I'm going to gradually lose interest and move on to somebody else. No, I want to be with somebody that's worth it. Someone that's actually worth of my time, fun to hang out with, whose friendly, kind, has the same interest that i do, someone that loves to go out and loves the social scene, knows what they want and goes for it, someone that has a plan for themselves in the future, someone secure in all areas of their life and who has everything together.
I wont really care much about a girls' looks as long as she takes care of herself. Same thing for boys, won't care much about looks, as long a very good hygyene is there. A cute face is a must though, body-wise won't really matter in my opinion. but yeah. I want a girl with an awesome personailty, but she can't be out of my taste either. With a guy, I want a guy with an awesome personality, looks... I can care less as long as there is attraction there.
I've dated some guys that are extremely good looking, but they would be jerks. I definately don't want that. That's why I ain't picky about them anymore.