So it's pretty rare for me to post in this section of the forums cause i usually figure my stuff out by myself. I don't really like asking for help.
But anywhom,
I'm stuck in a situation where I REALLY don't know what to do or say. And I need your guys' suggestions cause i can't figure this out.
The thing is, I'm making a move to Utah this Apr 1st. I already bought the ticket, about to start packing, putting my 2 weeks notice at work. I'm taking care of it basically. That's not the problem however the thing is.
I don't know how to say goodbye to my best friend.
We've been best friends for almost 4 years. She has always been there for me, as so have i. We have such a close friendship it's hard to imagine life without each other. She really cares for me, and makes it to spend almost everyday with me. I love her as well. Like, nobody has ever been there for me like she has. We met when she was just a freshman in high school, we were in band class, played the same instrument (Clarinet), and have been talking since. And now, she's a senior in high school, ABOUT to graduate, WANTS me to be her prom date (and yes, she has a boyfriend but taking me instead). And we had all these plans for the summer, like go beach-hopping this summer (go to a different beach everyweek and stay there), I'm already in college, but this fall she wanted to attend the same classes as me, and we were gonna start college partying. Her 18th bday is gonna be this year, and she wanted me to take her to a strip club (lol), spend this christmas/ new years eve together. On sept 6th it'll be our 4th yr of being friends.
I mean, this isn't forever. I know we'll still keep in touch and i'll eventually come back to california since I got family here as well. But It's just physically I'm not going to be there with her. And I know she's not gonna take it easy. I'd rather not even tell her, but I know I have to. The thing is I don't know how to. I don't want to see her cry, It's gonna hurt and I'm gonna miss her so much. I want to be there when she walks the stage on graduation day, but i'm not. And that's gonna kill her, cause I'm the only one that's been with her since she started high school and wants me to watch her end it. And I'm really bummed I'm not gonna be there to see that.
If this trip were optional, I wouldn't do it.
I gotta do what I gotta do to make ends meet. I have a job offer from my uncle over there as a security for Salt Lake City Airport starting at 12$/ hr. While I'm here in CA, Working at a Jack in the Box for 8.15$ and only working 2 days out of the week. And I need them monies. That's NOT gonna cut it for me, and i go to school so there's gotta be one way or the other I have to pay it.
I mean, meanwhile over there I'm going to live with my aunt and uncle, the college is only 2 blocks away, and the airport a couple miles away. So pretty much I'm gonna be all set. I gotta start over. Cause Cali ain't doing it for me anymore, living is too expensive and its going to be VERY hard trying to find a job. So I technically have no choice. :/
I guess the question is, How would you say goodbye to your best friend?
me & yvette.
.... yes i know.
- nelly <3
thnx for any help you guys.
But anywhom,
I'm stuck in a situation where I REALLY don't know what to do or say. And I need your guys' suggestions cause i can't figure this out.
The thing is, I'm making a move to Utah this Apr 1st. I already bought the ticket, about to start packing, putting my 2 weeks notice at work. I'm taking care of it basically. That's not the problem however the thing is.
I don't know how to say goodbye to my best friend.
We've been best friends for almost 4 years. She has always been there for me, as so have i. We have such a close friendship it's hard to imagine life without each other. She really cares for me, and makes it to spend almost everyday with me. I love her as well. Like, nobody has ever been there for me like she has. We met when she was just a freshman in high school, we were in band class, played the same instrument (Clarinet), and have been talking since. And now, she's a senior in high school, ABOUT to graduate, WANTS me to be her prom date (and yes, she has a boyfriend but taking me instead). And we had all these plans for the summer, like go beach-hopping this summer (go to a different beach everyweek and stay there), I'm already in college, but this fall she wanted to attend the same classes as me, and we were gonna start college partying. Her 18th bday is gonna be this year, and she wanted me to take her to a strip club (lol), spend this christmas/ new years eve together. On sept 6th it'll be our 4th yr of being friends.
I mean, this isn't forever. I know we'll still keep in touch and i'll eventually come back to california since I got family here as well. But It's just physically I'm not going to be there with her. And I know she's not gonna take it easy. I'd rather not even tell her, but I know I have to. The thing is I don't know how to. I don't want to see her cry, It's gonna hurt and I'm gonna miss her so much. I want to be there when she walks the stage on graduation day, but i'm not. And that's gonna kill her, cause I'm the only one that's been with her since she started high school and wants me to watch her end it. And I'm really bummed I'm not gonna be there to see that.
If this trip were optional, I wouldn't do it.
I gotta do what I gotta do to make ends meet. I have a job offer from my uncle over there as a security for Salt Lake City Airport starting at 12$/ hr. While I'm here in CA, Working at a Jack in the Box for 8.15$ and only working 2 days out of the week. And I need them monies. That's NOT gonna cut it for me, and i go to school so there's gotta be one way or the other I have to pay it.
I mean, meanwhile over there I'm going to live with my aunt and uncle, the college is only 2 blocks away, and the airport a couple miles away. So pretty much I'm gonna be all set. I gotta start over. Cause Cali ain't doing it for me anymore, living is too expensive and its going to be VERY hard trying to find a job. So I technically have no choice. :/
I guess the question is, How would you say goodbye to your best friend?
me & yvette.
.... yes i know.
- nelly <3
thnx for any help you guys.