Don't even try and get me started on the mods being unfair. Even though I'm a mod now, a while back when I was a retired mod, I made a thread complaining about the staff, I got bitched at my the entire staff. But some of the members were with me.
Some of us do give warnings, but the new members think it's abuse. Like just now, I closed a guys thread and pointed him to the right place (there was already a thread), and he tweaked on me. That's one of the reasons why we tend to treat new members with disrespect because they don't learn any other way.