I have mixed views on Xmas. It's both good and bad for me.
It's rather depressing for me because it's a time I realize how poor my family really has it.
My dad works overtime to try and get enough money for presents, my mom gets depressed because she can't give her children what they want, we don't have any living relatives to enjoy the holidays with, all the rich familey's around us show off what great things they get, and have thier nice houses full of lights and pretty decorations and such.
You wanna know what my last christmas was like? 2 weeks beforehand my parents said that we didn't have enough money for a proper christmas, so we had to stray from our usual traditions, and only our little sister would get presents since she was a priority over us. We had to get a cheap plastic tree off Ebay, we couldn't get decorations for it, or our house.
My step-dad got us all one present at the alst minute, I guess he felt guilty or something. I got a 5 dollar watch with a calculator in it, my one sister got a blanket, the other got some socks and underwear, and my other got a cd player.
I'm not complaining or anything, but I just feel that some people are rather oblivious to how bad other people really get it when they're getting PSP's, Nintendo DS's, computers, movies, and others. Those who have never really had a bad xmas see some of us as scrooges for not liking the season, but how can you really judge them if you've never had a time in your life where you couldn't get somehting you wanted? Where your mom cried because her relatives weren't alive to be there, and couldn't get her kids anyhting but a watch and some socks? Where your dad worked multiple jobs and overtime, only to have it taken away through taxes and given to his ex-wife right before the holidays?
Not every else see's this as a time of cheer and love, giving and hope. Some people just overall have a really crappy xmas.
Like I said, I'm not complaining, you you can't really be scornful at someone for not enjoying the holidays, jsut because you've never had an unhappy xmas.