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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

i dont think she would get mad, i think it would just make things super uncomfortable and im not sure if i wanna risk it or not. and im not sure if its something she would worry about or just let it pass. im just so nervous about the outcome if i do tell her i like her, but then i cant go on like this keeping it all inside.

its like neither option works so im trying to figure out which is better to deal with.
 
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1. Don't tell her.
2. Get over her.
3. She knows already anyway.
 

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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

Telling her will be better. It WILL eat you up inside. You won't be able to handle it and eventually you'll break.
 

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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

@ Crossroads, well you're optimistic, although you're probably right :/

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@ Stavvy, I'm think i'm going with what you're thinking though.

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my stepmom knows about the situation and i swear she uses it as ammo against me. as much as i can deal with the situation in my own mind, when she pushes it in my face, i cant help but lose it.
 

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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

Well, it's at least how I work.

Wanted to tell a girl that I thought I loved for about a month, it's a very long story, but I did, and she did too. Still do, too, but. . .there's complications.
 

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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

Is this just a regular "like" feeling or the biggest feeling you have ever had for some one feeling?

If its the first one then I say just move on. If its the last one then you probably know what you should do. You know the best plan. None of us know her like you so you must have some idea of what you should do.
 

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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

Well, it's at least how I work.

Wanted to tell a girl that I thought I loved for about a month, it's a very long story, but I did, and she did too. Still do, too, but. . .there's complications.

and im assuming that girl had a guy too right? ugh.....complications suck.

Is this just a regular "like" feeling or the biggest feeling you have ever had for some one feeling?

If its the first one then I say just move on. If its the last one then you probably know what you should do. You know the best plan. None of us know her like you so you must have some idea of what you should do.

its lasted a year. and its definitely a better feeling than i ever had for my ex.
the problem is i dont know. i really dont and it sucks. i dont want to ruin the best friendship i ever had and be left with nothing.
 

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its lasted a year. and its definitely a better feeling than i ever had for my ex.
the problem is i dont know. i really dont and it sucks. i dont want to ruin the best friendship i ever had and be left with nothing.

Will the reward outweigh the risk?
 

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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

So it's really strange that all guys have posted here.

Here's my advice: tell her.

Truth, it's the best thing. Solid foundation = good.

But be prepared for that to go either way, good or bad.
 

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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

and im assuming that girl had a guy too right?
In a way.

The girl's guy left her for another girl. I, being the awesomelyniceguythatnoonenoticeseverexceptfornow start talking with her more and more, over the phone. (we had met online) Eventually, we fall in love and start dating. She only lives like 50 miles away, so the distance isn't a problem at all. Eventually the bastard gets dumped on his ass, much as she had been, and asks her back.

Guess what she does, eventually.

So we're still in love, but she's in love with him as well.

The bastard's hurt her multiple times, and she goes back to him. I've never hurt her, and what do I get? My current life. Hip, hip, hooray.

There's more, but yeah. Abridged.
 

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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

Will the reward outweigh the risk?

if she decided to pick me over her current boyfriend or even if she said no and got over it, it would be the best thing ever.

but if i lost her cuz of something like this, i really dont know what i would do this next year at school. im betting on dying.

So it's really strange that all guys have posted here.

Here's my advice: tell her.

Truth, it's the best thing. Solid foundation = good.

But be prepared for that to go either way, good or bad.

i was thinking the truth thing too. im just not prepared for it to go the bad way.....
 

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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

In a way.

The girl's guy left her for another girl. I, being the awesomelyniceguythatnoonenoticeseverexceptfornow start talking with her more and more, over the phone. (we had met online) Eventually, we fall in love and start dating. She only lives like 50 miles away, so the distance isn't a problem at all. Eventually the bastard gets dumped on his ass, much as she had been, and asks her back.

Guess what she does, eventually.

So we're still in love, but she's in love with him as well.

The bastard's hurt her multiple times, and she goes back to him. I've never hurt her, and what do I get? My current life. Hip, hip, hooray.

There's more, but yeah. Abridged.

you should kick the guys ass
 
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Haha women always go back to the jackass. lol this world is so twisted I swear.
 

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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

In a way.

The girl's guy left her for another girl. I, being the awesomelyniceguythatnoonenoticeseverexceptfornow start talking with her more and more, over the phone. (we had met online) Eventually, we fall in love and start dating. She only lives like 50 miles away, so the distance isn't a problem at all. Eventually the bastard gets dumped on his ass, much as she had been, and asks her back.

Guess what she does, eventually.

So we're still in love, but she's in love with him as well.

The bastard's hurt her multiple times, and she goes back to him. I've never hurt her, and what do I get? My current life. Hip, hip, hooray.

There's more, but yeah. Abridged.

oh my God, that is so f***ed. i feel bad for you man.
 

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you should kick the guys ass

It wouldn't solve anything, though. And only get her mad at me.

Although, my bestest internet friend, Marwa, offered to assassinate him.

>.> Not saying anything else, though.
 

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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

Yeah, brother, I know. I'm going through the same thing.

Just have a little faith. If she's your best friend, the bad won't be terrible, and the good will be great.

The Truth is good. And I think she'd appreciate it if she knew it too.

Edit: Dang, Stav. I trip all over that tricky boy's ass if I was you.
 
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Yeah, brother, I know. I'm going through the same thing.

Just have a little faith. If she's your best friend, the bad won't be terrible, and the good will be great.

The Truth is good. And I think she'd appreciate it if she knew it too.

Terrible advice. You guys are going to get this kid messed up in every way...

If she didn't have a bf I'd say MAYBE tell...but...yeah.

This kind of stuff ruins friendships forever. FOREVER DUDE. You want to risk that? IN HIGH SCHOOL?

The answer is no.
 

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Re: She's already got a boyfriend....

Positive vibes?

Haha.

Well, this is the way I see it. If you sit around waiting for something good to happen, after the possibility that she might have already looked at you the way you look at her, you'll be too late. Cuz it's a rare occasion when I seen that happen.

But I don't know. I might be wrong like they say. Your choice.
 
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