umm..... ok I guess.:bored:
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heh, an update tomorrow I presume...
yerp it should be today well who knows
heh, guess not...maybe later...
ok yea this sounds odd...
a girl is posting on the GF thread...
but im bi and i have a GF and i need help.
ok...weve been going out for a week. but now this other girl id liked for awhile has a GF and its a girl i HATE.
i want to kill her GF REEEEEEEALLY bad. how can i deal with it without actually cussing her out?
a girl is posting on the GF thread...
but im bi and i have a GF and i need help.
ok...weve been going out for a week. but now this other girl id liked for awhile has a GF and its a girl i HATE.
i want to kill her GF REEEEEEEALLY bad. how can i deal with it without actually cussing her out?
talk to her nicely, or just play alot of stuff to get your mind off it...
ok then don't cuss her out but leave it u have a gf if u want the girl u might have to break up with yours. Anyway keep it cool dude
Well...You could ignore it.
You should focus on your own matters with your current girlfriend. Jealousy won't get you anywhere.
So just try to be calm about it.
You should focus on your own matters with your current girlfriend. Jealousy won't get you anywhere.
So just try to be calm about it.
I need help getting my girlfriend to like me again because I think she like my friend and Im thinking of leaving her.
1. big sig. might need to think of getting it smaller...
2. Try asking her about it and not just up and leaving her.
2. Try asking her about it and not just up and leaving her.
Ok, I need some help. I'm always shy when it comes to girls I like. I don't get that. I flirt with alot of girls. I don't feel nervous, I don't feel any physical attraction to them. We're just friends. We'd hold hands and etc. for fun, but when it comes to somebody I like and would like to get to know better, I shrivel up, my body gets cold and I naturally stutter, and that doesn't help my situation. I feel like a loser. 17 and still can't talk to girls. Any ideas?
I was somewhat the same way...
ask them out, just do it... There isn't any shame in that...you should feel proud for finally doing it, if people laugh, just say atleast I have guts.
ask them out, just do it... There isn't any shame in that...you should feel proud for finally doing it, if people laugh, just say atleast I have guts.
So it does exist. I said this thread did not exist
??^^ what? of course it exists...don't spam
Eh, I'm similar. I don't think I get as nervous as you, but I think I understand what you must be feeling. Though, it's the first time something like this has happened to me...
As for advice...I'm terrible at giving such, but what I do is try to put that feeling aside and treat them just as I would anyone else. I know that's probably easier said than done, though...
Two words.
Buck
up.
Simple concept. If you like a girl, invite her to come when you go places. Hang out with her outside of the normal, forced areas. Talk to her frankly, listen when she talks, ACTUALLY understand what she's saying, and show that the two of you have some common ground and common interests. When she decides she likes you, you'll know. At which point, pick a nice, quiet moment. Ensure that you've made physical contact with her before at some point, and move in slowly. Don't dive in at her like a beast, she'll freak. Go slow, touch her chin, if she wants she'll take care of the rest. If she turns you down, relax and try again in the future, but not SOON, wait.
The most important thing: Don't be a *****. They're not gonna maul you and chew up your brains. The worst thing a girl can do is say no.
Buck
up.
Simple concept. If you like a girl, invite her to come when you go places. Hang out with her outside of the normal, forced areas. Talk to her frankly, listen when she talks, ACTUALLY understand what she's saying, and show that the two of you have some common ground and common interests. When she decides she likes you, you'll know. At which point, pick a nice, quiet moment. Ensure that you've made physical contact with her before at some point, and move in slowly. Don't dive in at her like a beast, she'll freak. Go slow, touch her chin, if she wants she'll take care of the rest. If she turns you down, relax and try again in the future, but not SOON, wait.
The most important thing: Don't be a *****. They're not gonna maul you and chew up your brains. The worst thing a girl can do is say no.
But what if you don't have common grounds or interests? What do you then?
Eh, I'm not one for risks myself. Pessimist, I'd say, though I do prefer the term "realist". I'll keep your advice in mind for the future though. I'm sure it'll serve me at some point, though perhaps not for a while. So, thanks, I guess.
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If you truly just want to hook up, you could always go with the "make up my interests" approach.
That's because the term pessimist is a negative term, which you don't like being labeled, as you'd be labled negative, so you labell yourself as a realist because it's not negative.
Nah. Such a relationship would be shallow and based on lies, and that thought doesn't sit well with me.
That's what was implied.
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