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Re: My first time... need Guys I need awnsers.. Explict-ish

I'm surprised no one has asked the question yet- are you using a condom?

Condoms take about 70% of the enjoyment out of sex in my personal experiences. I would say that the pleasure level of sex with a condom is pretty much on par with masturbating. Fiddling with the condom and trying to get it on has often led to me losing my erection, and I can owe almost all of my sex problems in the past to condoms.

If you're not, then you're just fucked (or actually, you're not getting fucked).
 

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....I think you need to read again.

I read it clearly the first time, thank you. Whether you understand it or not, there is a double standard being expressed here. Especially in these posts:

I'm not one for used cars with gas mileage,
if shes a slut and you know shell sleep with anyone, the sex means less
You have to admit, a girl who's had a few guys in her is far less appealing than a complete virgin.
Since you probably didn't understand what my original post was saying, I'll explain it to you. What I'm reading, especially where I quoted, is that a woman is "less appealing" if she's not a virgin, and is therefor devalued. This is a terribly childish mentality and, fortunately, is very relevant to this topic. I'm willing to bet that the boys whom I quoted are all virgins. To the child (i.e Dogenzaka) if a woman is more experienced than him sexually, he feels inadequate. He's less of a man because he does not have any sexual conquests, and resents her for making him feel like less of a man. This is all subconscious, of course. Therefor, he devalues women who are more experienced than him, and values women who are less experienced. The problem with this is boys are taking out their anxieties and inadequacies unfairly against women.

Get it now?

No fucking shit. Doesn't mean everyone likes girls/guys who have had lots of sex, though.

That's the double standard! You seriously don't get it? How? How can you not understand this?

And no one asked for yours. Hypocrite much?
Oh my god...are you seriously this dense? I was trying to say that this is a free forum.

And I didn't.

Congratulations on your literacy.
And you did. Here:

I'm not one for used cars with gas mileage,

Are you going to tell me now that you don't judge women who are not virgins? And let me guess, you're going to tell me that you feel the same contempt towards men who have had a lot of partners. This is what's called a double standard. I'm saying that because you clearly didn't know. Seriously, you're as dumb as the furniture you sit on.
 

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Oh my god...are you seriously this dense? I was trying to say that this is a free forum.

Yes he is.


I'm a virgin, and I plan to stay that way until I have sex with a virgin on my wedding night.
kthx.

Yeah good luck with that. Seeing as your parents wont even let you go to the movies with a female friend.
 
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Ahhh I fucked up the topic its supposed to say my first time...guys I need awnsers-explictish lol a mod mind changeing it for me?

ok... So im just going to cut straight to the point here me and this girl ive known for about a few months we tried to have sex (it was my first time) well..

Im not sure if its cause i was really really REALLLLLY nervous or what but... I could'nt stay hard...

Like I would be hard and ready to go after she gave me oral and a hand job but when she tried to put it in I would get limp.

Is this normal? I Figured it might be becuase I was really really tense and nervous and maybe trying to hard cause after that I tried a second time and I was relaxed alittle and it stayed hard longer

What are some tips to help me calm down?

Has this ever happened to you?

Out of all the things that could possibly happen in my life I never thought I would be going limp while trying to have sex. well... not until I hit my 50's atleast

You gotta eat those Viagra pills and some canteloupe.

edit: I agree with Chris. Condoms take much of the enjoyment so if possible, put her on the pill
 

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I'm willing to bet that the boys whom I quoted are all virgins.
Whether they are or not, does it matter? Is that a problem to you?

Oh my god...are you seriously this dense? I was trying to say that this is a free forum.
No one asked for your narrow minded opinion
You're trying to say it's a free forum, and then you imply that I shouldn't say anything because I wasn't asked. Lol.

That's the double standard!
I hope you're not talking to me, because I don't have a "double" standard. I have a standard.
I'm a virgin, and I plan to stay that way until I marry a virgin and have sex with her. I'm not saying that women can't sleep around while guys can or whatever the hell the people on the last page were saying. I simply have my standards. Get over it and quit trying to turn a thread over one silly statement that I'm not one for "experienced" girls.

And you did. Here:
No, um, that's not a "judgment".

I simply said that I'm not one for non-virgins, but that if the woman he's sleeping with has indeed slept with other men, then it's not unlikely that she has dealt with the problem before and he shouldn't feel embarrassed, for example.

To the child (i.e Dogenzaka) if a woman is more experienced than him sexually, he feels inadequate. He's less of a man because he does not have any sexual conquests, and resents her for making him feel like less of a man. This is all subconscious, of course. Therefor, he devalues women who are more experienced than him, and values women who are less experienced. The problem with this is boys are taking out their anxieties and inadequacies unfairly against women.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Boy, you really don't know much about me, do you?

In case your brain didn't already guess this, I'm a Christian. I find pre-marital sex to be dirty, impatient, wrongful, sinful, devaluing and impure. Your analysis of me is quite the opposite. I feel better of myself for being able to keep my dick in my pants until my wedding night with the special someone I wish to be with for the rest of my life, and showing her that she's important enough to me for me to be able to wait for her to be mine. These are my opinions though, my standards, my preferences, and they have absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand so get off my dick.

Are you going to tell me now that you don't judge women who are not virgins? And let me guess, you're going to tell me that you feel the same contempt towards men who have had a lot of partners. This is what's called a double standard.
Holy fuck you drama queen, I'm not "judging" or holding anyone in "contempt", goodness fucking gracious.
I just said that I'm not one for non-virgins. Meaning, I have a preference for virgins, just like you might have a preference for white girls over black girls. Doesn't mean you're judging or holding black girls in contempt.

Yeah good luck with that. Seeing as your parents wont even let you go to the movies with a female friend.
It was for good reason, though, because the girl ended up being a troublesome girl whose parents would shoot me if they found out she hung out with me, so when my parents found out about that they decided they'd advise me from hanging out with her. Good riddens, IMO.

Regardless, there's a woman I'm interested in that I've been speaking to, so who knows what will happen from there.
 
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Whether they are or not, does it matter? Is that a problem to you?

You're not understanding what I'm trying to say. Again. Big surprise. You are a shining example of what is wrong with the American education system.

You're trying to say it's a free forum, and then you imply that I shouldn't say anything because I wasn't asked. Lol.

But you said it anyway because it is a free forum. Wow...Why do I have to explain the simplest things to you?

You're dumb. Bottom line. I'm not going to finish replying to your post because you probably won't get what I have to say anyway. You say you're 18 years old, and for a second I thought it was a lie. I thought that you were either lying and I was talking to a child, or that you're just an idiot. (Both are apparently true) But then you mention that you're a christian, which explains everything. You believe in a faith which actually justifies being judgmental and intolerant. I learned not too long ago that you can never have an intelligent conversation with someone who believes in a talking snake.
 

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You are a shining example of what is wrong with the American education system.

Now you're turning this against the American educational system?
Goodness gracious, you must be a riot in class.

But you said it anyway because it is a free forum. Wow...Why do I have to explain the simplest things to you?

So then why the fuck did you even go on about my "narrow-minded opinion" not being asked for if it doesn't need to be because it's a free forum?

You sure know how to say shit that no one even mentioned.

"Judgment"
"contempt"
[my] "Double standard"
"Girls need to be virgins forever"

You're dumb. Bottom line. I'm not going to finish replying to your post because you probably won't get what I have to say anyway. You say you're 18 years old, and for a second I thought it was a lie. I thought that you were either lying and I was talking to a child, or that you're just an idiot. (Both are apparently true) But then you mention that you're a christian, which explains everything. You believe in a faith which actually justifies being judgmental and intolerant. I learned not too long ago that you can never have an intelligent conversation with someone who believes in a talking snake.

Ahahaha wow.
 

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Regardless of whether you like them, the analogies work. :)
No, it's disgusting because you've just equated a significant amount of the worlds population to being worthless used cars.
If you're happy being a terrible person, then yeah, the analogies work.

And I didn't.
Uh, yes you did.

No, um, that's not a "judgment".
Uh, yes it is.

In case your brain didn't already guess this, I'm a Christian. I find pre-marital sex to be dirty, impatient, wrongful, sinful, devaluing and impure. Your analysis of me is quite the opposite. I feel better of myself for being able to keep my dick in my pants until my wedding night with the special someone I wish to be with for the rest of my life, and showing her that she's important enough to me for me to be able to wait for her to be mine. These are my opinions though, my standards, my preferences, and they have absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand so get off my dick.
This is judging.

You could quite simply say "i'm not a fan of pre-marital fucking. some people do it and it's right for them, but it's not for me and i hope i find a girl who shares the same view" but no. You phrase it in the most assholish way possible and you place judgement on everyone who doesn't think the same way you do.

Holy fuck you drama queen, I'm not "judging" or holding anyone in "contempt", goodness fucking gracious.
I just said that I'm not one for non-virgins. Meaning, I have a preference for virgins, just like you might have a preference for white girls over black girls. Doesn't mean you're judging or holding black girls in contempt.
Don't even try to back yourself out of this one. This is not the same thing and you fucking know it.
 

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So . . . should this just be moved to Discussion now? I'd say Intel but . . . well . . . yeah.

I'm a virgin and plan to stay that way until I'm married (preferably to a fellow Christian and virgin). Might be wishful thinking on my part (a fact I find rather sad), but whatever.
 

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No, it's disgusting because you've just equated a significant amount of the worlds population to being worthless used cars.
If you're happy being a terrible person, then yeah, the analogies work.
Wow since, when are used cars terrible?
I just said I don't like my cars used.
Meaning I prefer not being with women who have had sex.

This is judging.
I disagree.

ou phrase it in the most assholish way possible and you place judgement on everyone who doesn't think the same way you do.
Saying I feel proud of myself, to prove the point that I don't feel inadequate, is not saying that I think other people hatefully or anything.

Saying that I think pre-marital sex is so-and-so is my opinion, not a judgment of others, and I was being rather blunt about it to show .Oz that I'm not looking at it as a "oh-boo-hoo experienced women scare me" view, but rather, that I won't be having sex with a woman who has had it before anyway, so experienced women don't even come into the equation.

"i'm not a fan of pre-marital fucking. some people do it and it's right for them, but it's not for me and i hope i find a girl who shares the same view"
And I felt that I had stated similar statements before in this thread before I resorted to that retort. Simply because, .Oz decided to "profile" my motives for being a virgin/liking virgins, so since he quite simply didn't understand, I had to ingrain it pretty hard into his head exactly what I think and why. Nothing personal.

Like it matters, because even if I say it that way, which I have before, there will always be the moron that picks out an insignificant part of such a post and ruins the thread.

This is not the same thing and you fucking know it.
To me it is.
If I have a preference for virgins, a type of woman, it's the same as someone having a preference for white women, a type of woman, in my eyes.

Might be wishful thinking on my part (a fact I find rather sad), but whatever.
If you find some nice, fun, Christian women, it's not hard to keep optimistic.
 
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This guy is asking for some legitimate fucking help, and all this thread is doing is sparking up debates. Seriously, take it to private messaging or something. Otherwise you're just wasting his time to read this stupid ass argument, in which he could just be looking around the thread for advice.

At the original poster, I had that happen my first time using a condom(usually have the girl on the pill). If you're using a condom, put her on the pill. You won't get near as much satisfaction, it's pretty much about as good as masturbating.
 

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I feel like the important question here that we all need to be asking ourselves is

...is she hot?
 

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This guy is asking for some legitimate fucking help, and all this thread is doing is sparking up debates. Seriously, take it to private messaging or something. Otherwise you're just wasting his time to read this stupid ass argument, in which he could just be looking around the thread for advice.

True that. Well I gave my advice, and some others tried to as well.

I'm done so yeah.

...is she hot?
That is indeed the question.
 
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