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Phoenix

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LOL A baby cant be gay...ok jokes aside....To my knowledge no they arent born that way, as time goes on they might develope a certain urge for the same sex...which i actually find disturbing but i dont act on it or anything so w/e to the last part i said

So, according to your logic, people are not born geniuses, they become geniuses later in life, since one baby is not smarter than another?

Just because something shows up after puberty doesn't mean you weren't born with it.
 

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But i have a question for yall...
Is someone born gay or do they essentially choose that at some point in their life? Ive been confused about that lately....
They're born that way. I thought that subject was all over this topic already, but k.

Puberty is the moment your body is preparing for the future. This way, not jsut your muscles but also your brain grows. And thus also sexual preference.

Like Phoenix said, just because you arent gay when youre a baby, that doesnt mean youre not born with it.
 

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my brother left today and so i thought the drama would be gone... its not! my mom is hostile towards me and is threatening me, she is so immature...
But i have a question for yall...
Is someone born gay or do they essentially choose that at some point in their life? Ive been confused about that lately....

idk I've been confused about my sexuallity my whole life but lately its gotten worse...
I think people are born gay & just don't realize it till later in life...
I think I might be gay (well lesbian)

you should support him - i mean yes it might be a bit akward but it really does help them if you support them

and i do know this from experience my best friend is gay and i am bi as well - it makes it easier if your family and friends support you

so are you single? lol jk I love ur sig tho
 
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New2Ya

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idk I've been confused about my sexuallity my whole life but lately its gotten worse...
I think people are born gay & just don't realize it till later in life...
I think I might be gay (well lesbian)
Well, whether you're gay or not, you will most probably find out during puberty, as that is the time you are getting ready to become sexually active.

People that find out they're gay when they're in their 40s, take that with a grain of salt. They probably always knew but just kept it in to save them from people like some here that are so negative about gay people. xD
 

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My dad is missing, hes been gone since last night so my mom is panicking... im getting worried too

we think it may have to do with whats been happening lately with my brother l
 

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hmm... i've had this kind of experience before. i didn't know my uncle was... i'm quite surprised how my cousin still gives respect for her brother. it was kept secret for a long time but i guess it's understandable.

you shouldn't try to change your brother for who he really is. if you try to make him who he doesn't want to be, you're just making his life miserable... hmm... oh. i think you already have the picture.

it kinda sucks to be in your position. >.> i don't know why some people have a hard time accepting the fact.
 

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i make fun of gay people because I'm insecure about my own sexuality.
 

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They made them selves. In that corner in the one cave on the other side of the world.
So gays are God?

Man I wish I was gay. Then Id be able to create living things myself... :drool:

He didn't make them, you idiot. He made Adam and Eve.
Then Adam must've had a gay twin brother we don't know about. :p

my dad came home drunk last night and he has never done that.... i think they are over-reacting big time..
Ok your parents officially suck. Sorry don't know how else to put it. I'd like to give ya advice, but I don't have any.

There are two 'groups' atm. You have your brother who has a sexual attraction to men, that he can not help at all. And you have two parents who hate gay people apparently and can actually do something about it but are too stubborn.

You're not supposed to choose sides here, but I reckon you won't choose your parents' side either way.
 

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my dad came home drunk last night and he has never done that.... i think they are over-reacting big time...

if he's never done stuff like this before till he found out...u know there's a problem... take him to a specialist and they both need some major education on homosexuality... u can organize that urself by going on google. (no seriously... u can just about anything using google)

oh I just thought of another possibility... how old is your brother? ur parents might be going crazy mainly because they havent realized it till now (from whenever he found out till now... wats the gap between here?) u asked him about his phone conversation because he was talking o another guy and saying stuff like "your cute" "I love you" and suff like that (im assuming) that means he already had enough time to accept it and stuff. so... your parents r also mad because there's no way he could just be confused or jumping to conclusions... it might not seem like it if u don't think about it, but coming out when u first think about it and doing it when u knew for a while and accepted it are different.

Just remember what Myst said

GOD HATES FAGS

well if he did... they wouldnt exist now to counter overpopulation now would they...

They made them selves. In that corner in the one cave on the other side of the world.

and u made yourself up a rat's ass and around the corner...
 
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aqua, I don't really know what to tell you, aside from help your brother and don't worry about your parents. Incidentally, how do you know he was talking to a guy?
 

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Common misconseption! God doesnt hate anyone!

Truth to that


how do you know he was talking to a guy?

Ditto

my dad came home drunk last night and he has never done that.... i think they are over-reacting big time...

I mean if your dad came home drunk then he obviously can't deal with it. That is surely one way that humans deal with their problems.

The thing is that a lot of people need to realize that there really is nothing to "deal" with. Well I don't mean it that way, I dunno typing about this stuff odds me out. I am much better speaking with people on the matter.

Gay people are gay, simple as that.

I mean your father might need to think about this, or get some kind of counseling, but really he should talk to your brother about it more.

Maybe I missed something. This just makes me think about when i told my parents. My mom freaked out.
 
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