Let's talk about sex, baby; let's talk about you and me

[Priss Princess Peckerpunch]

I love what this thread has become. I'm actually amazed it's stayed on track during my serious absence. GOOD JOB, GUYS.

 

[Annoyance]

I love what this thread has become. I'm actually amazed it's stayed on track during my serious absence. GOOD JOB, GUYS.

You're welcome. <3

 

[Zulkir]

I love what this thread has become. I'm actually amazed it's stayed on track during my serious absence. GOOD JOB, GUYS.

The last 2-3 pages were fights, and one post about a guy getting waist pain. Still one normally expects this kind of thread to be infested with porn-spam trolls and such so it's still 100x better.


EDIT: Okay the ONE page right before the one where the fights started is on topic :S I didn't go back enough.

 

[Shamdeo]

denver this is like your crowning acheviement

 

[krexia]

- Near 0% chance of STD's, this ALONE is worth it, considering most are un-curable. STD's are spread through carelessly having sex with multiple partners.

No, an STD is spread through having unprotected sex with a single infected partner. This is why it's so important to check with potential partners that they've been tested for STDs.

Sodomy(anal sex) has an increased chance of infection.

Sodomy itself does not have an increased chance of infection. The issue is that people are less likely to use condoms when engaging in sodomy since there is no risk of pregnancy - that is what makes it statistically more dangerous. Protected anal sex is no more dangerous than protected vaginal sex.

I'd be rather surprised to see anyone who can sincerely say "no, despite those possible consequences(consequences that exist with or without a condom(which is breakable and not made of titanium), it's better to have sex with multiple partners".

Condoms, with proper use, have a success rate is about 98%. Contraceptives, with proper use, have a success rate of about 99.7%. This means that the chance of conception between a male and female where the former uses a condom and the latter is on the Pill is 0.006% - that's less than a one in 10,000 chance. Have you looked up the statistical risks of getting into a car, lately? How often do you drive to work?

(men usually don't talk maturely about sex its just ARRROOOOO*wolfhowl* from us most of the time)

This statement reflects more on the company you keep than on the behaviour of men.

Baaaaack on topic though, I had a long discussion with a friend today about the frustrating hangups Americans seem to have about sex. I don't know if this is only true of Americans who live in foreign countries, but we've both had very frustrating experiences with Americans who are reluctant to have sex until a LONG way into a relationship. Personally I think sex is part of getting to know a partner, not something to engage in only after you've been super-close for months and months and months. I'm not generally willing to wait that long.

 

[Priss Princess Peckerpunch]

Baaaaack on topic though, I had a long discussion with a friend today about the frustrating hangups Americans seem to have about sex. I don't know if this is only true of Americans who live in foreign countries, but we've both had very frustrating experiences with Americans who are reluctant to have sex until a LONG way into a relationship. Personally I think sex is part of getting to know a partner, not something to engage in only after you've been super-close for months and months and months. I'm not generally willing to wait that long.

I've... Experienced this as well, actually! Most American women I've ever been with would refuse to put out until a good few months into the relationship. Though, this is not that big of an issue for me, I agree that waiting too long before sex is just painful and not really 'worth' it in the end. I've always found sex to be a very integral part of a relationship; if I cannot share that experience with someone I love and care for? I feel very physically unnattatched. Almost like a large rift is seperating what should be a beautiful experience. Though, my latest lover does not seem to have this hangup!

And on an unrelated note. I've found myself enjoying BDSM a bit more, lately. Should I feel guilty that I have my own pet to play with, now?

 

[Faris]

On that topic of reluctance to have sex, Since I have turned 18 (technically an adult in Australia) other young women are a WHOLE lot more inclined to have sex early on. Its interesting how the social illusion of sorts plays with us, well not to sound sexist but in my case women, that once a person is legally an adult that sex is fine. Despite sexual maturity both mentally and physically being achieved alot younger in women than in men.

Also this may sound strange, however.... I know that you all don't want this to talk about personal affairs so sorry in advance, but I feel it may have some relevance. Recently I broke my arm, and since the break I seem to have lost alot of confidence with women. I was curious if anyone has had anything like that? an incident which is to a degree irrelevant but still causes problems?

 

[krexia]

Yeah, Australia is one of the countries I've lived in, and I also found that no-one seemed to make a big deal about adults having sex there. You meet someone nice, you go out with them, you start sleeping together and seeing each other more often, then maybe it gets more serious. You don't spend months getting serious before getting physical.

 

[Inner-Demon]

Not a virgin, lost it when I was seventeen. That was actually one of the best times I've had doing it, if we're being honest here, and I am, the night was just a great deal of fun, we pulled it off three times, and even as annoying as condoms are, I didn't even notice it. I always assumed, because of what I had been told, that your first time was inevitable to be awkward and uncomfortable, but I was like a pro-football player getting thrown in with minors (that sounded wrong), I simply mean it in the respect that I was playing the field like I knew it, and it showed through her "signs" shall we say, of enjoyment.

Don't get me wrong, I've had sex that out does that night anyday, but I guess the memories and what I was feeling then just left a much greater impression than the other times. Speaking of condoms, I really enjoy the Thin Trojan Magnums, feels great.

As for marriage, I'm not married, and I haven't gotten married to the girls I've done it with, and honestly, marriage is to each their own. If you want to wait, go for it, but no one said you had to. I find that most people waiting do it primarily because of religion, I don't support religion controlling your life, while I also do not support other people, peers or otherwise, controlling. It's what feels right by you.