If I meet a guy that I like, I want to know if he’s the cheater or playa type before I start a relationship with him. What are the signs?
I don't know about any signs, but being friends with your man first is probably the best way to go. Get to know them, make a bond that isn't melded together by lust and hope.
If they're not willing to be there for you as a friend, there's not really any purpose for going into a stronger relationship, because they're just going to up and leave you again.