Okay. So I'm a freshman in college.
Most of my friends are Sophmores, juniors and seniors in highschool.
So I havent talked to most of them since school started....or any for a long time. I've only talk to three over the summer.
One IMed me toay, like she rarely oes, so it was a nice surprise to hear from one of my friends.
She says(i'm summarizing) Hi how are you?? How's college??
I answer back
Her-I miss u! e havent talke in liek forever!
Me-I reply
Her-so
Me-Hmm?
I wait....an wait...nothing.
So I ask her about it
Her-Wel i ran out of things to talk about an you usually talk non stop
I sit there, some what hurt...because think about it. That sounds like she depns on me for conversation topics.
I asked her about ti an she said es she does.
So what the heck?!
And now i tried talking to her about the upcoming KH games. Then while we talking...[she likes the games too an cant wait for them, so she's interested in the topic] so she cuts me off in between to talk about her sister, randomly.
An now she said didnt want to chat really, which is what seemed like at first, but mainly to check up on me.
basically, I just want your opinions on two things
1. How she depends on me for topics of conversation
2. How she cut me off while I was talking, which is highly rue if I may say so myself.
I may be overly sensitive again...but she's cut me off countless times when we were in conversation an talks about something COMPLETELY different She knows she does it, which makes it worse.
Most of my friends are Sophmores, juniors and seniors in highschool.
So I havent talked to most of them since school started....or any for a long time. I've only talk to three over the summer.
One IMed me toay, like she rarely oes, so it was a nice surprise to hear from one of my friends.
She says(i'm summarizing) Hi how are you?? How's college??
I answer back
Her-I miss u! e havent talke in liek forever!
Me-I reply
Her-so
Me-Hmm?
I wait....an wait...nothing.
So I ask her about it
Her-Wel i ran out of things to talk about an you usually talk non stop
I sit there, some what hurt...because think about it. That sounds like she depns on me for conversation topics.
I asked her about ti an she said es she does.
So what the heck?!
And now i tried talking to her about the upcoming KH games. Then while we talking...[she likes the games too an cant wait for them, so she's interested in the topic] so she cuts me off in between to talk about her sister, randomly.
An now she said didnt want to chat really, which is what seemed like at first, but mainly to check up on me.
basically, I just want your opinions on two things
1. How she depends on me for topics of conversation
2. How she cut me off while I was talking, which is highly rue if I may say so myself.
I may be overly sensitive again...but she's cut me off countless times when we were in conversation an talks about something COMPLETELY different She knows she does it, which makes it worse.
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