In life:
I'll start right off the bat at saying that I'm pretty bad at romance myself. I've had a few girlfriends in my time, and no relationship has ended well, whether by my own fault or someone else's. My own relationships also have lasted on a maximum of 7 weeks and a minimum of three days, so I don't have too much experience with a lengthy relationship, either. Despite that, I really want to settle down and get married after college, and I would love to have a girlfriend right now. I'm doing a lot better fitting in in college than I ever did in high school right now, and I think that one girl is going to agree to go on a date with me soon. I'm also one of those people that can fall in love with someone despite their experience, and my crush right now, despite being a bit hefty, is so funny and awesome.
Let me put it this way: despite not kissing a girl since November 2013, I do still remember what it was like, and I remember how happy I was whenever I would kiss my girlfriend
. Love is a beautiful thing when you take time to let it grow and see where it heads, and romance is always welcomed in society, especially since humans are becoming increasingly social creatures, "needing" another person to share their romantic feelings towards. I learned this when one of my girlfriends, who was my ex by this time, told me that "I didn't need another girlfriend" because girlfriends are useless sacks of space where you can dump your feelings into, and that the only thing you should need to be happy is yourself. While she is partly right with the loving yourself thing, she missed the fact that there's nothing wrong with loving another person. She said to me that it was wrong to be attracted to someone else, as if I had committed some sort of sin for not committing myself to only me. I hope that everyone realizes that, yes, being in love with someone isn't necessary at all, and you can totally be fine not being attracted to anyone or not dating anyone. However, don't be sour towards those that are paired with someone else, as there's nothing wrong with that, either.
To those of you who have also had relationship troubles, please, reply to this, and tell me what they are. I very well know a lot of ways to diddly up a relationship, as I often ended up doing that a lot, and any feedback about a time where you felt alone or a time where you felt like having a girlfriend was, falsely, the only thing that could make your life happy would be much appreciated, as I have felt all of that before