Depends on your overall success with others i'd think. Elle, who was a forum member, left because of a few members giving her a bad time, and i suppose she was pretty well liked. In my honest don't take things so seriously that they literally affect you, and if that's not the only case, don't put yourself on a level you can't maintain i.e intelligent debating of sorts. What i mean is, don't put yourself in a conversation you don't fully understand, too many members get called out in those kind of situations.
So yeah, the general answer, Take everything with a grain of salt. I think you'll fit in fine though
Thank you, good sah, for the giggles you have provided me with today. <3