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Wow, after so long I've actually READ something all the way in the forum. o_O Anyway, I think I'll throw in my two cents worth into this thread (of which I really think should go into the discussion thread..=/)

Now, for "gangsta"s, the style in my honestly opinion has got to go. As SHOL had said, showing around all their "bling"(money, jewelery and etc for those that don't know) are just begging to be mugged. It's like giving someone a reason to kill/hurt you. Not to mention that the only people that will be with you in your self-proclaimed "gang" will most likely just be waiting to take everything you have shown them.

Sadly enough, women are treated as if they are one's property now-a-days, and it's sickening. I've walked through the halls of my school, looking at all the people trying to be "gangsta" and pinching girls asses as the walk along. This bothers me, and yet there's not much that one guy can do(Note that I am one of the most feared white guys in the school. Something about my uncanny strength and intelligence. =O) However, when I'm talking to one of my friends who is considered "property" to them, the person that thinks she is always taps me on the shoulder and asks me what I'm doing talking to "his girl". One thing I've noticed around here, at least, most people that act "gangsta" are cowards and if confronted with some danger should back away. (Don't try it though if you can't take the pain of consequences if you should be wrong)

Now, about nice guys getting walked all over. Yes, we are. (Gasp I said I'm one of the nice guys! Can you believe it!? Well it's still true anyway.) Personally, however I'm not blaming anyone, I think it's part of the girls part in these areas. They let them think that they are great when they act this way and therefore they continue on and take it to new extremes. And as someone said, it's to the point where to have a specific job with these people that act "gangsta" that it seems they need to and will get fired if they don't.

Now, on to their clothing. I must say it's the worst clothing I have ever seen in my 15 yearold life. Wearing three layers of black in the summer, WITH their pants always falling down I feel sorry for anyone next to them that has to smell it. BTW, the cologne is horrible too, they spray "Axe" which would be fine if they didn't continuesly spray it for about a minute on themselves. Then it just becomes irritating and often makes people light headed.

I almost pity the ones that try to be gangsta to be popular in school. Since later on in life, we need SPEECH skills, which they obviously lack thanks to their slang terms. We also need to be somewhat intelligent, which they seem to lack for the most part. They're going to run out of options really quickly if they keep it up.

On to the music now! As many have said it is basically excessive swearing and talking about girls being "property" and getting into their pants. This should not even be considered a genre of music, but that's only my opinion.

Everything stated is only from my standpoint. Any gangsta see this and will likely have different responses. Oh, and just to add in, thanks to gangstas we kind-hearted guys are becoming a dieing breed.

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if you don't like the style then just ignore it. and if you can't ignore it because you are just plain ignorant then i don't really have much advice for you.

If you give birth to children who happen to like that style, would you force them to change and expect them to have the exact same thought as you (about the style ) forever and ever, i think not.

I don't truely like any of your style. =/
would any of you change because i said i don't like your style? I think not.
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Enchanted Rose said:
I just find it hilarious. I can't take gangstas seriously so I could never honestly find it attractive. Perhaps it's just the aura of wealth some gangstas give off...or that people get blinded by all the bling...

LMAO ER~! Hehehe, yeah I got temporarily blinded by some bling the other day..=\ It hurts meh eyes >_< And yeah, I could never find it attractive either.
 
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Kazeth said:
if you don't like the style then just ignore it. and if you can't ignore it because you are just plain ignorant then i don't really have much advice for you.

If you give birth to children who happen to like that style, would you force them to change and expect them to have the exact same thought as you (about the style ) forever and ever, i think not.

I don't truely like any of your style. =/
would any of you change because i said i don't like your style? I think not.
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Kind of hard to ignore something/one that always tries to get into your face, isn't it? And no, I wouldn't change children that I had to my purposes. I said that I don't like it personally, that's all. Get it through your thick skull. kthxbai
 

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Gangsta? Ugh. *Note I am a girl, and I'm no ignoramus. **Note the vocab word. >>;;;

"Gangsta"(Note the quotes) has driven me up the wall. Most so-called "Gangstas" are wannabes who are trying to be as conformist as possible. They seem to deny this, but they know subconsiously it's true.
Half of it, aslo, is that they are TRYING to annoy others(especially girls and women). [Hates it when she asks said "gangsta" to be decent,{Ever seen someone's buttcrack half-hanging-out in public? It's not a pretty sight.} or at least somewhat, and they ignore.]
Speech and Music? I won't comment, because it may be something acquired. Some people actually DO enjoy listening to rap,(Though I am NOT one of them.) and others simply speak like "Gangstas" because they are arount "Gangstas".
Basically, that was a rather pointless rant, but I want to agree with many earlier statements said here. Thanks.

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I am not a girl of course, but I hate "gangsta" guys.

All the girls "gotta get down wit dem gangstas" and Im such an outcast because I like rock. I hate it, all of my ex girlfriends have been swooped away by some thug loving pimp who calls girls hot and spanks them

Im not saying I know drama, being my age, but I have a good idea.
 

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Yeah man even right now since we are both going into the 8th grade people are already doing it and some girls are stupid enough to find it attractive. People who like rap aren't bad but the ones who pretty much think that acting like that is cool are just losers. Like there is this one kid who brings 200 bucks to school everday, thinks he is black even though he is russian and tries to beat up people. Although he is really small and usually loses. He tried to push me into a wall once and I just moved to the side and he smacked into it. He isn't very strong either and claims he is a black belt in karate. he really is though in one of those 2 year to black belt schools, he really sucks. A real martial artist is respectful to those around him and disciplined when he is clearly not. I have been going for 7 years at kungfu and am still not a black belt. For us it takes around 12 years to get it and our blue belt rank is better than other schools black belts, its really sad. Right now I am brown and Have six degrees in brown to get to black which take as long as belts, so I have around another 5 years.
 

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Kazeth said:
if you don't like the style then just ignore it. and if you can't ignore it because you are just plain ignorant then i don't really have much advice for you.

If you give birth to children who happen to like that style, would you force them to change and expect them to have the exact same thought as you (about the style ) forever and ever, i think not.

I don't truely like any of your style. =/
would any of you change because i said i don't like your style? I think not.
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This isn't something that you can just ignore. Think about the vast majorities of people who do this style. It's not so easy to ignore it when they strut by your face doing the above mentioned things. Turn on the radio, and they have their disrespectful songs playing. Turn on the TV. At least one show will be on about a gangsta. How do you ignore something that is in your face each day at every corner you turn?

I would not force my children to change. I would simply voice my opinion on their situation. If my child decides to disrespect women and such, I'll force any want to do that out of them. Clothing is just clothing. I think the style is stupid, but the personality of those who promote it is even dumber.
 

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This reminds me of some VH1 show I was watching about the lady hip-hop dancer's in all the rapper guy's videos...


They say all the time that they get hit on and stright out get asked by guys on the set to sleep with them. And if they say no they never get asked to work form them again...

And u would think those girls would like the gangster people but they dun even seem to like them.... although a few of them still liked them even after they treated them like that (>___>)

Sometimes gangster ppl might look cute or w/e but the only thing I think is attractive is maybe their confidence??
I remember that. I loved that special, but anyways I find the style of clothing(some of the ones for girls) attractive but the way some gangsta's act to girls is a bit annoying but I could care less anyways since I'm also a bit attracted to the whole jerk type thing(yes I know its stupid).
 
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Sora_HeroOfLight said:
This isn't something that you can just ignore. Think about the vast majorities of people who do this style. It's not so easy to ignore it when they strut by your face doing the above mentioned things. Turn on the radio, and they have their disrespectful songs playing. Turn on the TV. At least one show will be on about a gangsta. How do you ignore something that is in your face each day at every corner you turn?

I would not force my children to change. I would simply voice my opinion on their situation. If my child decides to disrespect women and such, I'll force any want to do that out of them. Clothing is just clothing. I think the style is stupid, but the personality of those who promote it is even dumber.

you realize that some of these people (such as myself) don't like the styles that you guys where?

and it is easy to just ignore these things, unless you worry about them all the time, making big deals out of small things. why is it easy? because all you have to do is pay no attention. if you don't want to be like them then don't worry about what they listen to. don't wear clothes like them. don't disrespect women like them ( and not all of us disrespect women like you think ). I mean we moved away from your style because we didn't like it, and we pay no mind to it.
 
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i hate the "gangsta" look. and 82% of the people who think theur "gangsta" are dirt bags,that have no etiquette whatsoever. i like punk people, or anyone who is always themselves.

Gangsters aren't themselves? I dare you to go on to "wanna be gangster" street and tell the "wanna be gangsters" that they aren't themselves. See what happens, and I'm sure they'll show how "wanna be gangsters" are...

Other than that, you can't say that gangsters aren't etiquette because, yes, they do follow rules. not all gangsters aren't etiquette, you are steerotyping. and gangsters are not dirt bags, and if they are, explain how so...
 

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Kazeth said:
Other than that, you can't say that gangsters aren't etiquette because, yes, they do follow rules. not all gangsters aren't etiquette, you are steerotyping. and gangsters are not dirt bags, and if they are, explain how so...
Oh no you didn't! I'm all up in this thread now biyatches.

Not dirtbags? ROTFL.

Let see:

They dress like slobs coming out of a bag of XL clothing.

They shoot people. Enough said there eh? I'm sure they wouldn't be gangsters if they didn't shoot a few innocent people now and then. Want to know how a friend of mine died? Drive by.

They follow rules? Hello! They're gangstahs. They don't play by the rules.

They're stupid. Horrible vocabulary. They even made their own language. Ebonics aka retard.

They practically don't wear pants. They're sagging all the way down their ass that you can't tell what ass is theirs.

They all look the same to me. Just different jerseys. How unique. Blah.
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Most of them are wannabes anyways. All they do is dress like a "ganstah" but you know they probably live with their mothers and masturbate on porn.

So you just said it yourself that they're dirtbags right here

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Gangsters aren't themselves? I dare you to go on to "wanna be gangster" street and tell the "wanna be gangsters" that they aren't themselves. See what happens, and I'm sure they'll show how "wanna be gangsters" are...
See right there! Now theres a good definition of dirt bag right there.
 

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Some women like being dominated over, even in a negative way. Women also like men who are confident and for the most part, ganstas are very confident men. You can't understand why certain women are atrracted to them unless you are in that situation. Thats the closest thing you'll get to an answer on this forum . If you want a real answer to it, ask the question in a place where there are women who are attracted to gangstas, because I doubt many women here are.
 

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but im a black guy im not bi or homo but im sick of gangsta they really bug me and their giving black people a bad rep. im mean i listen to rap and sag my pants somtimes(it feels comfortable to me) but i never talk or act gangsta i would rather go to hell than become gangsta...
 

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Kazeth said:
Gangsters aren't themselves? I dare you to go on to "wanna be gangster" street and tell the "wanna be gangsters" that they aren't themselves. See what happens, and I'm sure they'll show how "wanna be gangsters" are...

Other than that, you can't say that gangsters aren't etiquette because, yes, they do follow rules. not all gangsters aren't etiquette, you are steerotyping. and gangsters are not dirt bags, and if they are, explain how so...
Some people's opinion on ettiquette and rules and such are different. It all depends on the person.

Crazy diamond, watch your language. you might want to calm down a little.
 

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Hmm...

I appreciate many forms of music. Styles on the other hand...

Well let's just say, the only good thing that came out of "gangsta" is the hawtness of my dearly beloved Beyonce. xD

Such class. -sigh-
 

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Gangstas are....well, unattractive. Now, I listen to rap and hip-hop to a certain point. (it gets annoying after a few songs). The 'gangsta' style is untterly a disgrace to civilized society. Pants down to your kness , walking like you're constipated, talking in a way normal, functioning humans can't understand you, and grabbing yourself so your pants don't fall down? Please. Have some decency and dignity.

Now, I am more of what many people would called a 'rocker chick.' I listen to a lot of rock (I am currently listening to Hawk Nelson's "Everything You Ever Wanted") and find rocker boys amazingly hawt :D. The only thing I really don't like about rocker boys is that some wear tight girl pants. Tight girl pants were invented for girls...thus the name 'tight girls pants.' Other than that, longish hair, good taste in music, knows how to speak correctly, and someone who truely respects me is a cool kid.

As you can see, I am very biased and I have a strong opinoin. If I offend anyone, I apologize, but really, just get over it. Life goes on :D
 
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