Wow. Okay. Okay. I see. Okay.
So Jen. How do I say it?
Seriously don't change too much of your personality and or your personality at all (unless you really need to improve). Only change the personality or whatever you really need to change to improve. It's so scary how we're alike though the guys act like they are afraid of me and I don't even have a guy friend that'll come up to me and even say hi! Not even a hi! Anyway, like many others have say: Don't change yourself for somebody else and don't change for who you never want to be. But anyway, just keep being yourself and if you need to improve, work on that! I'm working on my personality as well but anyway about the appearence, it shouldn't matter too much. If a guy is a jerk/idiot/stupid/has no brain to look beyond your looks and judge you by your appearence, then they are stupid and you don't have to date now. You can wait a bit maybe things will work out in Senior year or college or something like that. Not to mention you have alot of time--well not alot alot but time to improve. So why not focus on yourself first and what you want to change, and then go from there. And ask your friend for advice and not to mention, don't be so self-concious and be more confident! Guys love confidence and if they can't like you for you are and all or whatever--despite the good changes you go through, then they are, STUPID, MINDELESS, SHALLOW IDIOTS. Especially ones that only want you for your body or anything like a lecher would. So don't even go out or care about those guys. They are not worth looking or pining after. And as they say, there is plenty of time and fishes in the sea, so don't ponder for so long! I know this is complicated to hear and I might of repeated what other say but that's just my advice! I hope I can help you and all! I'm sorry if this doesn't. Good luck and if you want wardrobe change, just don't wear too much revealing or sexy clothes. Wear something that's not gonna get the guys staring at your boobs or whatever. The girls who are deseperate and weak and or have no idea dress like that. I don't think you'd like to be like now do you? I'm sure your better then that and can make good choices about how you change yourself--or rather think of it as an improvement! Well good luck and I hope you do well! Remember: You don't need a bf right now but if you want to improve--that'd be good thing. And yes, the single life is god but I can see what you mean. Good luck and hope this helps!
So Jen. How do I say it?
Seriously don't change too much of your personality and or your personality at all (unless you really need to improve). Only change the personality or whatever you really need to change to improve. It's so scary how we're alike though the guys act like they are afraid of me and I don't even have a guy friend that'll come up to me and even say hi! Not even a hi! Anyway, like many others have say: Don't change yourself for somebody else and don't change for who you never want to be. But anyway, just keep being yourself and if you need to improve, work on that! I'm working on my personality as well but anyway about the appearence, it shouldn't matter too much. If a guy is a jerk/idiot/stupid/has no brain to look beyond your looks and judge you by your appearence, then they are stupid and you don't have to date now. You can wait a bit maybe things will work out in Senior year or college or something like that. Not to mention you have alot of time--well not alot alot but time to improve. So why not focus on yourself first and what you want to change, and then go from there. And ask your friend for advice and not to mention, don't be so self-concious and be more confident! Guys love confidence and if they can't like you for you are and all or whatever--despite the good changes you go through, then they are, STUPID, MINDELESS, SHALLOW IDIOTS. Especially ones that only want you for your body or anything like a lecher would. So don't even go out or care about those guys. They are not worth looking or pining after. And as they say, there is plenty of time and fishes in the sea, so don't ponder for so long! I know this is complicated to hear and I might of repeated what other say but that's just my advice! I hope I can help you and all! I'm sorry if this doesn't. Good luck and if you want wardrobe change, just don't wear too much revealing or sexy clothes. Wear something that's not gonna get the guys staring at your boobs or whatever. The girls who are deseperate and weak and or have no idea dress like that. I don't think you'd like to be like now do you? I'm sure your better then that and can make good choices about how you change yourself--or rather think of it as an improvement! Well good luck and I hope you do well! Remember: You don't need a bf right now but if you want to improve--that'd be good thing. And yes, the single life is god but I can see what you mean. Good luck and hope this helps!
