Help/Support ► Lonely

[Lycanthrope]

Uh... I don't know how to help you be funny. So, if it feels awkward to you, I guess you might not wanna do it....

I guess my comments aren't helping either... *is in same boat as MA*

 

[Lancelot]

Wel i don't know what else to say either... just try not to be someone your not, that's all really

 

[afrobutt]

Lol, I'm kinda late, but I'll offer some advise

Honestly, there's no point in trying to hang out with ppl who don't like you. I hate being this blunt (don't hate me T_T), but I don't wanna lie either. You seem to be one of those ppl who aren't rlly loud, but not intresting either. So ppl don't care when you eat with them at lunch, but as for hanging out they're just like "... bout that >.> <.<"

My only real advice is to chill until you find someone who doesn't rlly have many friends either. Makes it a lot easier to hang out then someone who has other friends who want to hang out with them.

 

[Pelafina]

Take up a hobby or something outside of school.

With luck, you'll meet people there to befriend.

 

[Darkness Princess]

Snow...
You're a complete sweetheart, how can someone NOT like you? D=
Anyways,I have a feeling your 'friends' don't really wanna hang out with you and are trying to distance themselves from you as much as possible without just telling you to go away.Thats what it sounds like as I've seen it happen before and its happened to me too.I don't know, but thats what I think.

You should try and be more outgoing and not worry about coming off as awkward or anything like that, you're an awesome person and you will be liked by anyone who gets to know you. ^_^

 

[snowdog]

Thanks for all of the help. <3

I guess it's time to find new friends... DX

<3

 

[Darkly Aesthetic]

;_; i just want to give you a big hug and tell you everything is gonna be ooooooookay.


i would play the artsy loner type and try to find other artsy loner people to hang out with

 

[snowdog]

^ That's sweet. <3

Artsy? Check. Loner? Check.

... it could work. Though I'd prefer to have company.

<3

 

[Darkness Princess]

Be an artsy loner with other artsy loners. =3
That tends to work out, you know any clubs around for artists or something? Joining some kind of club kind of helps with finding new friends and don't forget, you've always got us if you need us. ^_^

 

[snowdog]

<3

Our school has no clubs. I mean none whatsoever. No sports, no arts, nothing. =/ Nor is there like, a sports centre anywhere nearby, or anywhere such a thing would take place. Yeah, where I live fails hard. We have nothing.

I feel terrible today. >.> ... *rant*

<3

 

[Darkness Princess]

Aww... Poor Snow! D=
*hugs*
Ok... Ummm... Do you know anyone at your school or art class or something who has similar interests as you do? If you do, gather up the courage and go talk to them, k?

 

[Lycanthrope]

<3

Our school has no clubs. I mean none whatsoever. No sports, no arts, nothing. =/ Nor is there like, a sports centre anywhere nearby, or anywhere such a thing would take place. Yeah, where I live fails hard. We have nothing.

I feel terrible today. >.> ... *rant*

<3

No sports? I swear I would die if I lived where you do.

See if you could start some clubs at your school or something then. Has that possibility ever come up at your school?

 

[snowdog]

Ok... Ummm... Do you know anyone at your school or art class or something who has similar interests as you do? If you do, gather up the courage and go talk to them, k?

Some interests are kinda shared, as in taste in music. If all else fails we could talk about art.

No sports? I swear I would die if I lived where you do.

See if you could start some clubs at your school or something then. Has that possibility ever come up at your school?

They tend to stop after one session because not enough people show up. That and it has to do with funding and stuff.

I really appreciate this. <3

 

[Lycanthrope]

That sucks. I don't know where I'd be if my school didn't have sports. Or extra-ciricular activities.

 

[snowdog]

They really don't have anything D: It was such a pain trying to write activities down on university applications as a result.

<3

 

[Nightmare]

LOL. your just like me!!!!

my "friends" don't like me, they never include me unless all their othe options are gone, i gots other people who are kinda my friends, my suggestin is do what i did, and are still doing, find other people and talk to them, hang out, and stuff, then you'll get new friends. OR try to be with "cool people", then your friends would be, like, jeouls and want to be with you or something


point is, GET NEW FRIENDS!!!!

worked for me, sorta

 

[Lycanthrope]

How could a school have no extra circular activities? Even my elementary school had them. hat is probably a big reason why you're in that hole.

 

[Darkness Princess]

Then, all you have to do now is pick a group of people or a person and just go for it. ^_^
Talk the people in your classes since there aren't any extracurriculars.

 

[Darkly Aesthetic]

How could a school have no extra circular activities? Even my elementary school had them. hat is probably a big reason why you're in that hole.

Some schools don't have the funding for them.
My school is getting rid of everything ecept sports and choir..cause apparently, we're really good at those.
So most people make due finding friends without them.

Really snow, you don't need ALOT of people to have fun, just ONE really good person who you enjoy being around and who likes you for who you are.

I'm 100% percent sure that person is out there somewhere in your school, you just have to look a little harder and try talking to a lot of people to see if it's them

 

[Leonard]

I guess it's time to find new friends... DX

Aw come on, I think it's a bit too early for that, snow. xD

I'd like to think it were a misunderstanding on my part, like maybe I'm looking too hard, but when I think about all of it I think I have a point.

That's very well possible.

Just a little suggestion: How bout you give us an example for such a case, where you felt "left out" by your friends.

Then other members here could help you with judging the whole situation and tell you if you're really just overreacting or not. The others here might see it differently than you do.

Before you jump into conclusions and try to look for new people, maybe this could help you to clear up things a bit for yourself. <3

It's just a thought, though.