Ok I really like this girl and I really want to go out with her:loveit:... does anyone have advice to win her over.
Help/Support ► Girl help
- Thread starter terra2.0
- Start date
|
REGISTER TO REMOVE ADS |
|
- Status
- Joined
- Jun 9, 2005
- Messages
- 9,258
Jam it in.
Depends if your an ugly guy or a good looking guy.
Well it depends on how much you really want to win her heart. Maybe show her how you really feel or prehaps confront her when she's all alone and not with her friends so it might make it easier to talk to her. Either way if you don't confront your feelings to her soon then she might be taken by somebody else once you fine the courage to talk to her. Trust me it worked for me three times. But if you get rejected then maybe she's not the one for you and then you might have to move on.
she already know's I like her...I asked her to a dance tonight but she was going with someone else.
What other detail's should I give.
What other detail's should I give.
Not necessarily, some girls actually look past the looks and see what's in beneath.
Though physical appearance does take up about 60% of the attraction.
As for the advice, do you talk to her on a daily basis? Do you have any classes with her? etc.
Though even before you can answer that here are the basics to a relationship:
- Make sure you like her for the right reasons, if you're looking for a quick night stand just find a hooker lulz (I don't condone that.)
- Know her likes and dislikes.
- Keep your cool around her if you can, that's vital.
- Make certain she isn't taken >_>
- If you do at some point decide to ask her out get ready for rejection, it's a 50/50 so always be prepared.
That's all the info I have for now, hope it helps.
*EDIT*
Excuse me while I edit my post.
Based on nearly all the girls I know, only about 10% actually look past the looks and see what's beneath. 90% only care about looks and what's in your pocket..
Granted, this is just my experiences with Chicago girls.
I dont won't to have a "Quick Night" by any means. I love her personality and her looks. I talk to her and I have about three classes with her. I asked around and nobody knew she was going out with anyone so I took a shot.
Last edited:
Well that's chicago for you >_>
jk, I know what you mean people don't look past physical attraction.
It's a shame really v.v
Well it's more so called "One night stand" but I digress.
I wouldn't use the word "love" freely though unless you really do that is.
And if she isn't taken then go for it.
Unfortunatly she is taken 
By this new kid I have never heard of.
By this new kid I have never heard of.
- Joined
- Apr 9, 2008
- Messages
- 1,791
Well, first off your 13 so nothing to serious. Lets see... You asked her to the dance? Good move, even though you got rejected you put yourself in her train of thought.
Now, how did she break the news that she was going with someone else? That's kinda important tell tale factor. And also, is she going steady with this guy or is it just for this one date?
If you can make a girl laugh, her heart is yours.
It's elementary young friend.
Seriously, every girlfriend I have had said they liked me most for my sense of humor. But don't take that advice and force it- if you aren't a funny natured person then don't try to be funny. It should come naturally.
And that is where intelligence comes in, and how quickly your brain processes things. I mean think about it, you can't be stupid AND genuinely funny. Sure, you can be stupid-funny, which is just the kind of thing that makes people laugh over your stupidity. Some girls dig this too, as long as it doesn't happen in excess amounts.
And don't try to make a joke over everything she says. More so joke about other people or just general things you experience/see when hanging out. Do NOT, I repeat do NOT repeatedly insult her.. it's alright a couple times but don't over do it, and don't get harsh.
Then there's the charm- be nice but not creepy nice.
Umm, that's about it, hope I could be of help.
Just make her laugh man, make her laugh ;D
It's elementary young friend.
Seriously, every girlfriend I have had said they liked me most for my sense of humor. But don't take that advice and force it- if you aren't a funny natured person then don't try to be funny. It should come naturally.
And that is where intelligence comes in, and how quickly your brain processes things. I mean think about it, you can't be stupid AND genuinely funny. Sure, you can be stupid-funny, which is just the kind of thing that makes people laugh over your stupidity. Some girls dig this too, as long as it doesn't happen in excess amounts.
And don't try to make a joke over everything she says. More so joke about other people or just general things you experience/see when hanging out. Do NOT, I repeat do NOT repeatedly insult her.. it's alright a couple times but don't over do it, and don't get harsh.
Then there's the charm- be nice but not creepy nice.
Umm, that's about it, hope I could be of help.
Just make her laugh man, make her laugh ;D
I'm am deciently funny...She said that she is going to the dance with said BF... and then she said she was going out with him. She just kinda let me know that she was going out with him.
Well as the others say, ask for her likes and dislikes!
Get to know her more? Are you friends? Good then you can go from there!
And if she likes you, she'll smile, be friendly, flirt, stare at you, and all the signs of a girl liking you back!
To ask her out, get to know her better (if you haven't) and just tell her that you like her and all!
Or show some signs. If she can pick those up, good! If not, just tell her!
Dude trying to go out with a girl who has a BF is NOT the best idea. Seriously. Leave them be until they broken up and all.
Until then, sorry and if you don't give up, you might just obtain but seriously.
GOOD LUCK!
Get to know her more? Are you friends? Good then you can go from there!
And if she likes you, she'll smile, be friendly, flirt, stare at you, and all the signs of a girl liking you back!
To ask her out, get to know her better (if you haven't) and just tell her that you like her and all!
Or show some signs. If she can pick those up, good! If not, just tell her!
Dude trying to go out with a girl who has a BF is NOT the best idea. Seriously. Leave them be until they broken up and all.
Until then, sorry and if you don't give up, you might just obtain but seriously.
GOOD LUCK!
- Joined
- Jul 18, 2008
- Messages
- 4,283
Well, you said she'll be at a dance with some other guy, make sure that they don't start to 'date' before you do anything. But, once all that stuff is smoothed over, then you could work on getting her to like you in return.
Many people on here have already given you some ideas on what to do, and plenty of others will. Here's my list of things not to do.
1. Do not bombard her all the time. Make sure that when you talk to her, that it's casual, and don't seem too excited to see her.
2. Don't show off anything, but at the same time, don't be too modest. In other words, if she compliments you, simply and confidently say, "Thank you." and try to quickly change the subject.
3. This is the most important piece. Do not give her advice. Do not help her in her time of need. If you wanna do something like that, then wait until you're in a relationship with her.
Edit: Taken, eh? Never mind. But, hopefully what I said will help with some other girl in the future.
Many people on here have already given you some ideas on what to do, and plenty of others will. Here's my list of things not to do.
1. Do not bombard her all the time. Make sure that when you talk to her, that it's casual, and don't seem too excited to see her.
2. Don't show off anything, but at the same time, don't be too modest. In other words, if she compliments you, simply and confidently say, "Thank you." and try to quickly change the subject.
3. This is the most important piece. Do not give her advice. Do not help her in her time of need. If you wanna do something like that, then wait until you're in a relationship with her.
Edit: Taken, eh? Never mind. But, hopefully what I said will help with some other girl in the future.
all you guys are giving me is stuff I do to her (Flirt, stare etc.) Thank you for the help though. Like I said I didn't know she was going out with him so I had know way of knowing not to ask her.
Find out her interests. Let her talk to you and listen intently and actually care about what she has to say Then start off slow by talking to her more and more. Then when you think you are ready....make your move
Then start off slow by talking to her more and more. Then when you think you are ready....make your move - Status