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Rich simply hasn't met the right person yet, considering he's looking for someone sincere and caring and romantic, and not just an everyday "GET SUM" kinda whore.
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Wow I'm the only Bisexual Person on the list. XD
Anywho, Man, I hate scholarships essays.
They ruin my non-existing life.
And how do you cope not trying to kill yourself? (I think I used that word right hm :/)
Anywho, Man, I hate scholarships essays.
They ruin my non-existing life.
And how do you cope not trying to kill yourself? (I think I used that word right hm :/)
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Well, I typically avoid anything that may have a side effect of me dying, if I want to avoid killing myself. 
Well, let's see.
I tried last time but I made a hole in the ceiling.
Is that a sign I shouldn't die?
I avoid everything, though when thinking suicidal Death means nothing to me. Man I'm messed up. I need to think positive. And Now My head Hurts.
I tried last time but I made a hole in the ceiling.
Is that a sign I shouldn't die?
I avoid everything, though when thinking suicidal Death means nothing to me. Man I'm messed up. I need to think positive. And Now My head Hurts.
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Suicide is never the right answer. I've considered it multiple times, but chickened out. And I'm glad I did. Life has ups and downs, and sometimes the downs are just a little long, you just have to wait until it goes back up again.
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Agreed, if you did suicide it would hurt everybody around you and have a huge negative effect. You should look toward your friends and the good things in life when you feel down.
When I was around 8-10 years, I got mentally beaten up by kids at school, and it definetly had an impact on me. IMO, hurting someone mentally is far worse than physically, because it's something that affects that person for a long time.
It haunted me, but I overcome it.
Point is (took me a while to get to the whole point of it, lol) that I considered suicide at that point, which freaks me out now. I mean, a 8-yo that wants to commit suicide, that's messed up. Now looking back, I'm both surprised and relieved that I had those thoughts, because I actually forgot I had those strong feelings. But they have affected me and made me who I am now. I have the scars, but I have dealt with them and am who I was before I was beaten up like that. I know for a fact that I am here to help others out who have problems and equality and empathy should be far more important for our human race than what it is now.
Rich, good you didn't have the guts to do it. You have problems you'll need to overcome, but it makes you so much stronger. Obviously, seeing how you talk about it now.
It haunted me, but I overcome it.
Point is (took me a while to get to the whole point of it, lol) that I considered suicide at that point, which freaks me out now. I mean, a 8-yo that wants to commit suicide, that's messed up. Now looking back, I'm both surprised and relieved that I had those thoughts, because I actually forgot I had those strong feelings. But they have affected me and made me who I am now. I have the scars, but I have dealt with them and am who I was before I was beaten up like that. I know for a fact that I am here to help others out who have problems and equality and empathy should be far more important for our human race than what it is now.
Rich, good you didn't have the guts to do it. You have problems you'll need to overcome, but it makes you so much stronger. Obviously, seeing how you talk about it now.
hey i;m bi aswell...doesnt that make me on the lsit? i have this problem. can i talk about it here?
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That's what this thread was made for
but I think its problems that refers to your sexuality only.Yes definetly, that's the whole point. We all want to help.
well i said this once to my friend before...though we never actually tlaked about it...but i lost so much faith on guys...and i want to try beign with girls...but.....my mom i kinda chose not to be with women since my mom is really religious about it. though i never actually got her approval anyways, i thought i should at least try.
anyways my friend has been flirting with me lately...and i want to try being with her....but i'm so confused...idk what to do. what do you guys suggest?
anyways my friend has been flirting with me lately...and i want to try being with her....but i'm so confused...idk what to do. what do you guys suggest?
Well first and foremost, are you're bi-curious now or are you just mad at the last guy you dated/relationship and now believe all men suck.
If it's the first, go for it. If it's the second, know that there are many great guys out there too, that aren't just about sex. Pathatic that there are so many guys trying to keep that stereotype alive.
Anyways, about your mom. You gotta wonder, is she that religious that she cannot accept you as being gay or bisexual? Rich can definetly chat with you about that subject. In my opinion, if she is your mother, she will accept you either way. Or she's an evil witch. That could be possible. :tongue:
How do you feel about that girl? Do you really like her? Or do you like the attention she's giving you? And are you sure she is flirting with you in a way that she's after you in particular? If you don't know yourself, flirting back could give you the answer.
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If she was that religious then she would accept her daughter for what she is and would know that we are humans and you should be handled with love and support rather than rejection.
idk...the way she flirts is a little out there...almsot like a guy....i guess you could say she's the seme type. but i definitely know she's flirting.
no my mom doesnt want to even talk to me....she basically disowned me and my brother. i think she gave me my brother so he can keep an eye on me if i do any les stuff in front of him...well i wouldnt know...
the guys i dated werent really the sex-addict type, i kinda fell in love with all the guys i dated (well jsut the oens that lasted more than a month). but it wasnt as simple as the stereotypical ones.
Right. Unfortunately, some religious people are extremely inhumane. Makes you wonder if they even have emotions or a soul. A heart. A BRAIN!:23:
Are you flirting back, making her know you're interested. But make this clear for yourself, are you attracted to her? If you're not and just like the attention, you might wanna back off, in her interest. It would be heartbreaking for her if you give her signals but in the end don't want to.
So I take it she knows you're bisexual?
You could also just take a break from dating. Unless you're bisexual and really want to try with a girl, but right now I'm not so sure if you are. Help me out here.
well...ok...anyways...i love her....but i'm too scared what my mom will think...i've ben trying to contact her for like a year now
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My mother says I wanted to kill myself when I was five.
If you haven't even talked to her for a year than why did you really care what she thinks?
If you haven't even talked to her for a year than why did you really care what she thinks?
it's complicated. she's been a real mom to me up to the point where i confessed my sexuality to her.....sigh....i jsut cant let her go just like that
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Maybe you should, for the time being.
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