Don't do that.Thank you , some guy told me to look at the breast and smile .
Gay people aren't shy around girls.you might be gay.
or you're just way too shy.
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Don't do that.Thank you , some guy told me to look at the breast and smile .
Gay people aren't shy around girls.you might be gay.
or you're just way too shy.
Well I'm a lady, and I'm your age, <3 - and if a guy approches me, I'm expecting him to be a gentleman somewhat, you know to not look at my goodies, but to look at my face, and yes as has been said before, eye contact is a total plus; it means he is talking to ME, not my goodies.
Anywho, you sound sweet, and with a little bit of confidence, and trust me a little goes a long way, you can at least make small talk with a lady and work your way up from there. Of course there are some girls that can be rather rude, but they don't deserve your time at all, nope. Maybe talk to some girls in class since you'll see them on a regular basis, like ask them if they know what's going today, that's the usual conversation starter that happens with me at least.
Anywho, hope that helps ^_^ and should you stumble upon a rotten egg, just keep right on trucking :3 Confidence and (some) persistence can open just about anyone up, even if its for a few sentences at a time.
Thank you , some guy told me to look at the breast and smile .
Thank you everyone for the advice. This is a good community.People often give you specific advice on what to do around someone sexually attractive for you.
Let's try a scenario: Someone you like approaches you. Do you start a conversation with a joke or present a formal greeting?
My best advice: "When you come to a fork in the road, take it." What does that mean? Don't think, act. Just do it. What is "it"? I don't know, you tell me, it's different for each person. If you can let go of your self conscious nature, you can (as cheesy as it sounds) be yourself without having to worry about the consequences.
Who cares if she denies you or, worse, makes fun of you? Letting it get to you is the worst that could happen.
So don't go around looking for all of this self help advice. Just let things happen.
Thank you everyone for the advice. This is a good community.
This quoted advice is original though, never heard it put like that before in that precise way. I think its sort of smart.
Great advice all around guys, thank you.
I think I am going to draw random women at college.
Im at a young, ripe date age, and Im available ,and so are many young attractive women. I have had some set backs in life, and I get very tense .
When a woman looks at me my nerves stiffen up and hold my head down, when I move it up to look back my head jerks, my eyes widen ,and my heart races.
I do not know how to show affection, I am very spiritual but I have some life expression damages .
What do you do when a girl shows an interest in you and looks at you? Do you approach her ? Do you just look back and smile and then go back to being uncomfortable and red faced and looking like you are hiding ?
I don't know how to react to affection from a woman. My body is not used to smiling even...long story .
Any thoughts ? What do I do after the look?
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Its hard for me to look at them psychically as well as mentally . I do not have brilliant convo themes either . I would not be able to comfront a women without stuttering and being red faced...so I guess Im screwed .
I'm not ugly , Im not Yul Brynner but I look like a guy that is way more tuff than I am . So women sometimes show an interest in me and I show them the wall barrier.
Any help from someone close to my age wold be appreciated.
What do you do when a girl shows an interest in you and looks at you?
Do you approach her?
Do you just look back and smile and then go back to being uncomfortable and red faced and looking like you are hiding?
Any thoughts ? What do I do after the look?