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Pretty sure you'd be trans either way. Just perhaps you'd lack the vocabulary or the confirmation of it being something normal that many do accept. Like Social media didn't make me Ace, but it did help me realize it and vocalize how I was already feeling. It also helped me feel less alone, in how I experience stuff.
Right. Social media didn’t give me dysphoria, but it let me know what dysphoria is.
I really hope this blows over for you. I don't use the term "evil" lightly, as I see people as flawed and limited beings, so it's really difficult for someone to truly be "evil" in my eyes as most decisions people make are based on limited experiences. This however, is in the nature of "evil." This day and age, anyone can easily educate themselves on the topic of being transgender, actively ignoring it and forcing one's views when it is obviously harming somebody is just flat out "evil." I really hope you're able to continue pushing past these needless cruel hardships, and are able to make it out of there. This stuff really shouldn't still be happening, I just hope in the future this kind of thing gets rightfully put under child abuse in law. There is no reason for it logically, and it's needlessly cruel.
There is good in everyone and my parents are no exception. But if someone is 51% evil, they are evil. My parents feed me, buy me everything I need to live, give me sometimes over $100 worth of presents for Christmas. They say they love me and I believe them. But they don’t love every part of me. If they can’t accept everything that makes me me, I feel like they don’t love me at all. In my perspective, they are very much evil. But it’s all about perspective.
They’re doing what they think is best for me even if it’s actually the worst thing they could possibly do.
It would be nice for it to be illegal, but I don’t see that happening anytime soon as it’s seen as unconstitutional. There are good things that can be done with circle and downtime, like keeping young kids from looking at porn or from being on there phones at midnight. I hope that someday they come up with a way to keep parents from abusing it like my parents do.
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Well like the stupid optimist I am, I’m not scared anymore. Something may very well happen, but now I’m telling myself that if it hasn’t happened already, it won’t happen. But I’m just like this, I believe what I want to believe. I really don’t know but I don’t like to be worried so I won’t be. 
Well like the stupid optimist I am, I’m not scared anymore. Something may very well happen, but now I’m telling myself that if it hasn’t happened already, it won’t happen. But I’m just like this, I believe what I want to believe. I really don’t know but I don’t like to be worried so I won’t be.
Well that's the spirit. Just have to keep looking forward and don't give up. It might sound corny here but, " may your heart be your guiding key." I followed that advice and took a leap of faith, and my mind's more stable now then it used to be. It maybe all about perspective, but sometimes people need a bit more motivation to believe in themselves and others. I know I definitely couldn't change my own views without my surgery, I needed something to show I was sound of mind.
Why not try the opera browser? You can download it on phone too and it has a built-in vpn that, while not very good, should be enough to access this site and also not give any indication that you're using anything except a Web browser
Well if I want to download an app on my phone I need permission. I can have it on my computer and I can use any website on there.
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Sheesh. Willow; your parents are draconian. I admit I'm prolly old enough to be your momma myself (in my late 40s) but as I said before; keeping a eye on what your kids are doing online is one thing. I mean, I wouldn't let any kids of mine..if I found Mr. Right that is..play games like Final Fantasy XIV b/c that's not a good place for a kid (people are douches and like to erotic role play and use dirty words, which isn't a good place for a younger kid) and stay off Reddit. I'd also talk to my kids about it; you'd proly find me the cool mom. And yes, I'd prolly set up a filter/pihole to filter out badware/spyware. But that's IT. (After my dad gunked up one pc with adware/spyware, well. I figure little kids wouldn't know better and you have to make sure they can't download anything that'd mess up a pc. But there is a fine line there between "I don't want you d/ling adware/software with viruses in it" and being draconian and you'd better believe I never want to cross that. And make sure your parents aren't looking if you wanna know what a pihole is! You don't wanna give them more ideas!)
And yeah, no phone after bedtime but I think that's a good thing for anyone. As I said it can mess up your sleep. Anyway I don't know if you can use chat programs like Skype, Discord, Epic friend list thing, gaming usernames, and the chat function on Steam, but I wouldn't mind chatting up a storm if you want to chitchat. And I seriously doubt your folks would mind a straight arrow Mormon single like me; don't worry tho I won't judge you. I leave that to the Lord, not me. ^^ Also I won't list those here, but most of 'em are here. I really need to add my switch name tho that used to be my sister's :/ (Worst way to get a switch ever..)
And yeah, no phone after bedtime but I think that's a good thing for anyone. As I said it can mess up your sleep. Anyway I don't know if you can use chat programs like Skype, Discord, Epic friend list thing, gaming usernames, and the chat function on Steam, but I wouldn't mind chatting up a storm if you want to chitchat. And I seriously doubt your folks would mind a straight arrow Mormon single like me; don't worry tho I won't judge you. I leave that to the Lord, not me. ^^ Also I won't list those here, but most of 'em are here. I really need to add my switch name tho that used to be my sister's :/ (Worst way to get a switch ever..)
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Oh wow, this sounds like a really rough situation! I hope nothing bad comes of it! I wish you the best of luck!
Thank you.
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You are welcome!
Lol! My parents think that the coronavirus is just a cold, and that vaccines shouldn’t exist and the the lockdown and masks never should’ve happened.
And guess what happened to them?
They got corona!!
That’s karma!
Like, they were kinda asking for it
And guess what happened to them?
They got corona!!
That’s karma!
Like, they were kinda asking for it
It wasn’t confirmed that they have corona, but they have a fever and are coughing and they’re worse than I’ve ever seen them so it’s obvious what it is
Oh…
I hope I don’t catch it
I already preordered my black widow ticket so it would be bad if I couldn’t go
I hope I don’t catch it
I already preordered my black widow ticket so it would be bad if I couldn’t go
My parents will get super offended if I wore a mask around them. They already hate it if I wear I mask when I go out, they would get very mad at me if I wore it around them in their own house.
I can wash my hands and stay six feet away.
I’m kinda surprised they lasted this long before catching it.Lol! My parents think that the coronavirus is just a cold, and that vaccines shouldn’t exist and the the lockdown and masks never should’ve happened.
And guess what happened to them?
They got corona!!
That’s karma!
Like, they were kinda asking for it
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