Okay well before I tell you the problem let me explain the background.
Well,recently I moved to a new school. and you know how people are when someone new comes into the picture. Well in the beginning, I was a bit shy.. you know. And I didnt talk to anyone. Until realized this girl from my old, old school came in a class of mine. my friends ,from the other school, all hated her. So basically I didn't like her either. But I didn't want to be mean to her. So i was her friend. I then got tired of her, so hung out with these girls from my volleyball team.
They seemed nice, but they weren't. My friend Juan, he's like the opposite of me. Becasue everyone in this school wonders why a geeky nerd like him would hang out with a gorgeous, or pretty girl like me. Now don't think i'm calling myself gorgeous b/c in this school everyone thought (as everyone I mean the guys and some non-jealous girls) I was the prettiest one. (Which I thought was weird)
To this reason,it caused some troubles.
The first few weeks of school a lot of guys were asking me out. This got some of the girls mad at me and some that don't know me, "hated me". The girls that did know me ,were telling everyone "Don't say that bout her. You don't know her so get to know her."
Yvette, the girl I thought was a nice person, she invited me to her party. It was like in the beginning of the year. Like two weeks after school started. I didn't know I was gonna get invited. Supposably they were talking bout me, so I didn't know wht to expect from them. I heard them say "Let's get to know her" At her party, I met new people that I didn't know were our at school. Her boyfriend started to befriend me and talk to me more in classes and at school.Even his friends liked me because he told me. I got invited to everyhtingtney went to, like their football games, to their houses. This got her pissed at me.
But then as this reason from her inviting me to this party. the guys that were there wanted to hang out with me. Everytime between classes they came to my locker, or gave me a note. Mostly every other girl had to go to them to talk to them, which got them pissed at me. So I started to hang out with them. When i did ,the girls that liked me were saying "Your hanging aroun with them too much, and when ever you do , you change" I actually didn't notice that I changed, so i tried hard enough not to change to different people.
So when Yvette and her boyfriend broke up, he started to write to me more and talk to me more. She got jealous and started maKing rumors bout me. The guys and my girl friends were telling me that they were jealous. But I told them "I doubt it" bc this is the first year that everyone thought I was pretty.
So then, she made all her little friends not like me, and she told them that I was saying stuff bout them and that I said that everyone is jealous of me . When i know I didn't say that...like I said people told me THEY were.
The friends that I talked to (some girls) weren't talking to me on Tuesday and Wednesday. On Thursday.since we had no school friday, All her little friends spread rumors around and then they all came up to me (seperately) saying that I was talking crap bout them.
So I dont't know what to do. All these girls wanna fight me. Some of the girls that I trusted a bit more than others, dont like me. I only have few girls to talk to.. alot of guys talk to me. I don't know how I should react.
I mean if I get into a fight,I would get suspended and not go to sixflags. I NEVER gone to sixflags , so thts a good reason. Lately when theycome up to me, I just acted like I didn't care and said nicely, "no i haven't" and replied nicely.
But I'm a person that can take it for a bit.
The point of this is,how should I react to them.? Should I be nice to them and give no attitude, or should I just let them have it. Yell at them and say have an attitude and tell them whats up?
Well,recently I moved to a new school. and you know how people are when someone new comes into the picture. Well in the beginning, I was a bit shy.. you know. And I didnt talk to anyone. Until realized this girl from my old, old school came in a class of mine. my friends ,from the other school, all hated her. So basically I didn't like her either. But I didn't want to be mean to her. So i was her friend. I then got tired of her, so hung out with these girls from my volleyball team.
They seemed nice, but they weren't. My friend Juan, he's like the opposite of me. Becasue everyone in this school wonders why a geeky nerd like him would hang out with a gorgeous, or pretty girl like me. Now don't think i'm calling myself gorgeous b/c in this school everyone thought (as everyone I mean the guys and some non-jealous girls) I was the prettiest one. (Which I thought was weird)
To this reason,it caused some troubles.
The first few weeks of school a lot of guys were asking me out. This got some of the girls mad at me and some that don't know me, "hated me". The girls that did know me ,were telling everyone "Don't say that bout her. You don't know her so get to know her."
Yvette, the girl I thought was a nice person, she invited me to her party. It was like in the beginning of the year. Like two weeks after school started. I didn't know I was gonna get invited. Supposably they were talking bout me, so I didn't know wht to expect from them. I heard them say "Let's get to know her" At her party, I met new people that I didn't know were our at school. Her boyfriend started to befriend me and talk to me more in classes and at school.Even his friends liked me because he told me. I got invited to everyhtingtney went to, like their football games, to their houses. This got her pissed at me.
But then as this reason from her inviting me to this party. the guys that were there wanted to hang out with me. Everytime between classes they came to my locker, or gave me a note. Mostly every other girl had to go to them to talk to them, which got them pissed at me. So I started to hang out with them. When i did ,the girls that liked me were saying "Your hanging aroun with them too much, and when ever you do , you change" I actually didn't notice that I changed, so i tried hard enough not to change to different people.
So when Yvette and her boyfriend broke up, he started to write to me more and talk to me more. She got jealous and started maKing rumors bout me. The guys and my girl friends were telling me that they were jealous. But I told them "I doubt it" bc this is the first year that everyone thought I was pretty.
So then, she made all her little friends not like me, and she told them that I was saying stuff bout them and that I said that everyone is jealous of me . When i know I didn't say that...like I said people told me THEY were.
The friends that I talked to (some girls) weren't talking to me on Tuesday and Wednesday. On Thursday.since we had no school friday, All her little friends spread rumors around and then they all came up to me (seperately) saying that I was talking crap bout them.
So I dont't know what to do. All these girls wanna fight me. Some of the girls that I trusted a bit more than others, dont like me. I only have few girls to talk to.. alot of guys talk to me. I don't know how I should react.
I mean if I get into a fight,I would get suspended and not go to sixflags. I NEVER gone to sixflags , so thts a good reason. Lately when theycome up to me, I just acted like I didn't care and said nicely, "no i haven't" and replied nicely.
But I'm a person that can take it for a bit.
The point of this is,how should I react to them.? Should I be nice to them and give no attitude, or should I just let them have it. Yell at them and say have an attitude and tell them whats up?
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