Because that's not love. Especially not Christian love. In any case, "teh Bible tells us" that we are supposed to look after our own soul - this will lead to us being good people, but we are supposed to be concerned with our own soul above all but God.
So, in Christian belief, your own soul matters more than your son's? LOL
Source? Especially for the rampant absolutes you like to use?
"Thus by 1992 the Catechism of the Catholic Church could express the hope that children who die unbaptised might still be saved:
CCC #1261 states:
As regards children who have died without baptism, the Church can only entrust them to the mercy of God, as she does in her funeral rites for them. Indeed, the great mercy of God, who desires that all men should be saved, and Jesus' tenderness toward children, which caused him to say, 'Let the children come to me, do not hinder them' [Mark 10:14, cf. 1 Tim. 2:4], allow us to hope that there is a way of salvation for children who have died without baptism. All the more urgent is the Church's call not to prevent little children coming to Christ through the gift of holy baptism.
The International Theological Commission was asked by Pope John Paul II to consider the question of the fate of unbaptized babies. Under Pope Benedict XVI, the Commission is expected to recommend in their report that the doctrine that all children who die do so “in the hope of eternal salvation” be formally adopted, thus rejecting the theological hypothesis of Limbo. The report was to be published towards the end of 2006, but is still unpublished as of January 2007."
Yeah, keep telling yourself that. You might believe it, Kryten.