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[Shade737]

I usually have my problems with my parents when it comes to their handling of what I do. Like if I go out and tell them they will find some reason to get mad at me. the will look to the most insignificant thing and get mad at me for it. And the most annoying thing about it is that I have to stay at home and not go anyway just to prevent this.

 

[fnklzxx]

well i tried but she wont answer my calls, and she wont talk to me in christmas or thanksgiving

There's not much you can do if your mom wont event talk to you about it.
Keep trying to talk to her, and if you can get a hold of her explain your feelings to her.

It's not your fault your bi, it's just who you are, and if she can't accept you for that, it's like not accepting your child because it has down syndrome, or autism.

 

[fnklzxx]

I usually have my problems with my parents when it comes to their handling of what I do. Like if I go out and tell them they will find some reason to get mad at me. the will look to the most insignificant thing and get mad at me for it. And the most annoying thing about it is that I have to stay at home and not go anyway just to prevent this.

Can you give us a little more detail.
perhaps one certain scenario that bugged you the most?


EDIT: awh crap, double post. Much apologies.

 

[Vossler]

But I have seen this stuff before and I know how much children want to be accepted by there parents it is really tough.

 

[Aqua13]

What is your relgion (or your mothers relgion I should ask) because that might be the reason she isn't accepting you.

she is christian and so am i

 

[fnklzxx]

But I have seen this stuff before and I know how much children want to be accepted by there parents it is really tough.

Yes, i know.
But if the parents don't even give the children a chance to talk, there's not much you can do.

 

[Vossler]

she is christian and so am i

See I to am a Christian but that is why she isn't talking to you because in the bible it makes statements that being bi or gay is a sin.

 

[fnklzxx]

See I to am a Christian but that is why she isn't talking to you because in the bible it makes statements that being bi or gay is a sin.

I don't believe it quite says that.
It's all in how you interpret it.

 

[Shade737]

Sins can be forgiven and the fact that she won't accept you for your natural so called "fault(Bisexuality)" makes it her wrong not yours.

 

[Vossler]

I don't believe it quite says that.
It's all in how you interpret it.

I do know that it says that it is wrong to be with a the same sex person.

 

[fnklzxx]

I do know that it says that it is wrong to be with a the same sex person.

The closest it gets to saying that is that marriage is intended for a man and a woman.

 

[Shade737]

It is wrong to lie but we lie allot throughout our lifetimes it just makes us human since it is natural for humans to sin. Its when you acknowledge your sin and try to avoid sinning to the best of your ability and get forgiven then its not a problem. You bi its natural for humans to do the "wrong" thing and to add to that it is out of your control whether to be bi or not so all you can do is balance it out and try to make your bisexuality one of your few sins.

 

[Aqua13]

well...i'm more attracted to girls even though i chooose to set my own limits within my religious beliefs so i choose not to stare, at women or fantasies about them.


i try to tell my mom but she really wont listen to me

 

[fnklzxx]

well...i'm more attracted to girls even though i chooose to set my own limits within my religious beliefs so i choose not to stare, at women or fantasies about them.


i try to tell my mom but she really wont listen to me

It's not your fault if she won't listen.
All you can do is keep trying to talk to her, and maybe she'll finally listen.

 

[Shade737]

She should since forgiving is a big part of Christianity. And she is still your mom so she will eventually.

 

[Aqua13]

It's not your fault if she won't listen.
All you can do is keep trying to talk to her, and maybe she'll finally listen.

yeah thanx guys, girls 9whichever one you are)

 

[fnklzxx]

yeah thanx guys, girls 9whichever one you are)

Official male.
And no worries.
I'm here to help.