alright, im kindof in a weird state right now and i was wondering if i could get some advice.
ok, well there is this one girl at my school that i have been really good friends with for the last half of my last year of school and for the whole time this year. she's a really cool girl, she's smart, funny, attractive, nice, and we get along really great. i would sometimes take her out to get food, go ice skating in the city, or just hang out. she's been really cool and i wasn't really interested in going out with her at the time.
then a good friend of mine also started to get to know her pretty well and they like each other. so at this time, im thinking "alright that's cool, two good friends of mine will be going out". i've been talking to them both about how they feel about each other and such and they really seemed to like each other. then one day the guy asked the girl if she ever thought about dating, and she said she would think about it. however, the guy kindof mistakenly took it as if she said yes. so he thought they were going out, but later that weekend she explained to me that she didn't mean to make it seem like she said yes, so i told her she should straighten things out with each other, which they did and now they are not going out. nowadays neither one of them knows how their feelings for each other are anymore.
the girl keeps telling me she's not sure and the guy tells me that he's not sure about them either, but he likes her and if she doesn't wanna date him, then he's cool with it. he has also told me about such instances where their hug goodbye was weak, and she denied him a kiss, so he feels dumb. they still talk alot and they seem to get along well.
now here's where i come in. just sorta recently, i have been taking a liking for this girl. so im thinking to myself, so does she like my friend or no? if she likes him, why does she seem hesitant about going out with him and why aren't they going out? could it possibly be that she might like someone else?
another factor is that prom is coming up in may, and she did tell me once earlier in the year when we were having a discussion about it that we could go together if neither of us were dating someone. if it could happen, i would love to take her to prom, but if not that's ok too because i have a backup plan so no worries there. im just kindof confused, is this just a phase for me, maybe because there's a chance she might like me? the thing i want to know is how are those two going to end up because if i have the chance, i will probably ask her to prom.
sorry if this is kindof hard to understand, its late and i don't really wanna be grammatically and structurally correct in my writing. and yeah its kindof a dumb story, but does anyone have any advice for me?
ok, well there is this one girl at my school that i have been really good friends with for the last half of my last year of school and for the whole time this year. she's a really cool girl, she's smart, funny, attractive, nice, and we get along really great. i would sometimes take her out to get food, go ice skating in the city, or just hang out. she's been really cool and i wasn't really interested in going out with her at the time.
then a good friend of mine also started to get to know her pretty well and they like each other. so at this time, im thinking "alright that's cool, two good friends of mine will be going out". i've been talking to them both about how they feel about each other and such and they really seemed to like each other. then one day the guy asked the girl if she ever thought about dating, and she said she would think about it. however, the guy kindof mistakenly took it as if she said yes. so he thought they were going out, but later that weekend she explained to me that she didn't mean to make it seem like she said yes, so i told her she should straighten things out with each other, which they did and now they are not going out. nowadays neither one of them knows how their feelings for each other are anymore.
the girl keeps telling me she's not sure and the guy tells me that he's not sure about them either, but he likes her and if she doesn't wanna date him, then he's cool with it. he has also told me about such instances where their hug goodbye was weak, and she denied him a kiss, so he feels dumb. they still talk alot and they seem to get along well.
now here's where i come in. just sorta recently, i have been taking a liking for this girl. so im thinking to myself, so does she like my friend or no? if she likes him, why does she seem hesitant about going out with him and why aren't they going out? could it possibly be that she might like someone else?
another factor is that prom is coming up in may, and she did tell me once earlier in the year when we were having a discussion about it that we could go together if neither of us were dating someone. if it could happen, i would love to take her to prom, but if not that's ok too because i have a backup plan so no worries there. im just kindof confused, is this just a phase for me, maybe because there's a chance she might like me? the thing i want to know is how are those two going to end up because if i have the chance, i will probably ask her to prom.
sorry if this is kindof hard to understand, its late and i don't really wanna be grammatically and structurally correct in my writing. and yeah its kindof a dumb story, but does anyone have any advice for me?