What are you referring to by going with the flow?
Oh, pfft. It's perfectly normal to not expect a few to no things at all (how old are you?).
Yeah, I just got through this, really. I had political aspirations for my country. I even planned things out (setting up my life before my career). Then my interests of becoming a prosecutor came back, and since over here that's a political post, it got me even more delusional. Then I talked with my mother, she burst my bubble; That's for people without emotions. You have initiative. Then I understood that, even though a country may be progressing, somehow, someone, is winning money. I envisioned myself in politics helping people 100%, not by winning for myself and everyone, but wining for the people. After a long day of thinking that I lost interest into what I like to do (Accounting), I understood that, politics weren't my thing, but doing good is my passion. I thought politics was my passion, but then I evaluated this and realized that, mysteriously, I never studied politics and understood them, and it's because I've never thought of thinks from a political point of view, but from a good person point. I presented myself a subject and I chose the correct answer.
In summation;
My passion is doing good all along, not politics, lol.
Another issue I had was that I deduced my life. Oh hey, I don't have a problem finding a man attractive, does must mean I'm gay! But oh, wait! I've done this before and have fallen in love thrice with females! After constants thoughts, I realized I was deducing my life, and every time I deduce something, it's wrong. The last thing I deduced was my political interest, and you can see how that turned out, lol.
In summation;
I realized my error in deducing my future and am letting my life flow waiting for life to fulfill my expectations (fall in love in university, get married, have kids, get a job related with Accounting, become a Certified Public Accountant, get a Master's Degree, a Ph. D, and if possible, form an Accounting Solutions establishment with mah bro).
So yeah, you're not the only one with problems, lol.