Virgins

[Manchester Black]

^^Man thats not true love, sorry to say.

You will actually find love when you are married, but as a teenager it is bullshit. It is just a false belief that girls like so much that the men become hypnotized by it and they say "I love you too". You don't actually love them because most normal men just want to have sex. You guys aren't in love period.

Someone's been jaded by women.

As much as I HATE to agree with you, DaDides, you're right about that not being true love. Innerdarkness, dude, you were twelve. No twelve year olds know what love even means. Hell, some of us 18 and 19 year olds still have a problem with it. I don't care how mature you think you are at twelve and thirteen (admit it, we ALL thought we were the most mature kids out there at that age), you're really not. At that point in time, you know NOTHING about the real world. All you know is kiddie relationships and Pokemon.

Could you see her today maybe and decide that it's true love? Probably not. But you know, you'd be more likely to know it now than you would when you're twelve.

And Ryu, I definately agree with you on all the points you were making, dude. Every single one. We should almost move this to Intel Discussion after that back and forth between you and NJMIgnatio

 

[MegaFlare]

Often close friends aren't reliable. Considering that they also count towards peer pressure.

What friends are you around? There's nothing I can't share/discuss fine with mine.

Manchester Black, I totally agree with you, as much I hate to agree with DaDides for once.

That wasn't love at all. And the age was 12?

I tried to refrain from saying this, the woman mind is different from a 12 year old girl's, let alone her body.

 

[Kegluneq]

im still a virgin and il still be one until i think ive learned enough about sex

 

[Scotty]

Well, if you want to know, I lost it at 11.

Yes, 11.

The situations, and what led up to it, you will not know about.

But, since then, I've been disgusted with myself to be honest. =\ For the exact reason many of you have said: I cannot give it to anyone I trully want to anymore. It's ruined.

And, as much as I try to convince myself it wasn't proper sex, (it depends on your view, to many it would be close, to many it would be), but, still I tend to think deep down it's ruined.

Americans have their heads screwed on more with things like this - many want to wait untill marriage.

People over here aren't really like that, and aren't brought up like that.

Advice: wait

 

[chosen destiny]

im a virgin. i mean why would you want to have sex with some one you barely even know and take a risk at deing faster. im not trying to make people mad, but only have sex when your married. its much safer because you know this person on a much more deeper level and you know more about them. giving your body away is wrong. the bible says your body is like that of a temple and you should treat it as that. i fell sorry for those who have had sex at such a young age because now they might be at risk of having an s.t.d..

 

[Ryu]

And Ryu, I definately agree with you on all the points you were making, dude. Every single one. We should almost move this to Intel Discussion after that back and forth between you and NJMIgnatio

That's what I thought. Although, I don't think I'd want to move a topic to the Intel that starts out with "i wont b angre at u ppl but hoo haf had leik seckz alredy plz??"

I agree with DaDides, Manchester Black and Flare. The thing you felt at the age of 12 wasn't love. It was your body discovering that it was actually in charge of hormones.

What friends are you around? There's nothing I can't share/discuss fine with mine.

What she said. I didn't want to say it at first, but actual friends won't pressurize you, and you won't feel pressured around them. There are people, especially in school/high school, who will subconsciously pressure you, but those aren't friends. Period.

It has been said before and I'll say it again, don't be stupid and wait till you've matured. Don't think you're already mature at the age of 12, because you're not.

 

[LordMune]

EDIT: I'm a virgin. I'm not religious so I'm not proud of it- it just plain doesn't bother me.

The thing you felt at the age of 12 wasn't love. It was your body discovering that it was actually in charge of hormones.

But then again, I imagine most of what you feel on the matter through puberty is hormones. Not change in hormones, just plain hormones.

As for 14-year-olds having sex, I just chalk it up to America's incredible double-standards. Very prude, and very exploitative at the same time.

 

[Super Sonic]

Virgin,me?

Hell no.......well maybe..........I guess..........yes. -_-

I'm not trying to get sex,I mean 3rd will do,and has before, but once I'm 18,look out women.

 

[Scotty]

Virgin,me?

Hell no.......well maybe..........I guess..........yes. -_-

I'm not trying to get sex,I mean 3rd will do,and has before, but once I'm 18,look out women.

Ehh, is it 18 in Ireland aswell? =\ It's 16 here.

 

[Super Sonic]

Ehh, is it 18 in Ireland aswell? =\ It's 16 here.

I don't know if there is a legal age,but I'm sure there is one,I'll go find out,but it's more likely I'll be one 'till I'm 18.

EDIT:Age of consent is 17,but oral sex is legal at 15,yesss!

 

[[crash]]

I'm staying virgin until marriage, I know alot of people have said this but why have your heart broke, get pregnat, get a STD, or what ever else can happen......

I just don't understand why people would have sex before legal age or after marriage....

This may sound gross but from ?-17 your body isn't fully mad for sex.....girls your ovary can't handle sex and you could damage it and guys I don't know about guys ...b/c i'm not one and I haven't taken classes on that.....

but yeah anyway, I'm waiting and no one can change my mine

 

[Drama Setter]

This may sound gross but from ?-17 your body isn't fully mad for sex.....

Are you kiddin me? At least 80% of men in high school just want to have sex, That is all they think about because it is new to them and they want to have it ASAP. Girls don't have usual sexual tendencies because their hormones are different, but as for men they are out of control.

If it wasn't for men, the population would stay the same throughout the centuries.

 

[[crash]]

If it wasn't for men, the population would stay the same throughout the centuries.

only b/c they have the extra Y and X.

At least 80% of men in high school just want to have sex, That is all they think about because it is new to them and they want to have it ASAP.

I don't think this is true, b/c when I talk to some guys about it they just ask the girls to have sex b/c they want to see their limits. Alot of the time the guys have the same fears and worries about sex as girls do.

 

[Schweppes]

I wouldn't have replied if it wasn't for Schweppes.

>.< sorry. That wasn't exactly my view. There's not much else that I can say. I'd rather keep my personal life out of this. So don't believe me if you want. Can't really tell if a person lies or not over the internet.

 

[Baba197]

I'm still a virgin and proud of it.
Frankly I'm in love and only twelve years old.
(Note: When i first regeisterd I thought that you had to be over 13. I haven't changed it since.)

Now back to twelve year old love.
First of all it is very possible that young people like me can be in love.
It is just so rare that it's almost found no where.
I love this one girl called meaghen in my school
She doesn't like me sadly or I don't know.
Most of the people at my school are to shallow for love but i know this one couple at my school
Maggie and josh who where in love. nut Josh did smething that I don't want to specify because its to gruesome and they broke up.
Don't get me wrong they where in love.
I was sure of it.
Ever where one went the other followed.

So preteens and teens can fall in love but it rare.

(preteen love is purery )

 

[Mikail]

It has been said before and I'll say it again, don't be stupid and wait till you've matured. Don't think you're already mature at the age of 12, because you're not.

100% true. No other comments needed for that.

If it wasn't for men, the population would stay the same throughout the centuries.

only b/c they have the extra Y and X.

1) Men don't have an Extra Y and X chromosome. They have a Y in replace for an X chromosome. And the reason for the Y chromosome is for the fetus to become a male.


My opinion on sex: I am a virgin. It doesn't bother me one bit. You know why? Because I am in no rush, and becuase I feel that I am not mature yet. Sure, I think about it, thats only because I'm in puberty and my hormones are very active. My plan is not to have sex until I'm either married, or ready. And as for when I'm ready, i'm not sure. I could just say that if the opprotunity for sex came along that I'd go and have it, but thats just talking, if it actually happened, I really don't know how I would react. I know a lot of people, and a lot of friends, that have lost their virginity, and none, I repeat NONE have put any pressure on me at all to have sex. As for if they regret it or not, I don't know.

Virgin,me?

Hell no.......well maybe..........I guess..........yes. -_-

I'm not trying to get sex,I mean 3rd will do,and has before, but once I'm 18,look out women.

Age of consent is 17,but oral sex is legal at 15,yesss!

And the winner for the most immature post goes to....Super Sonic! Come down and take a bow! Seriously, oral sex at the age of 15 is still young. Sure, you might be with a girl, both of you get a little curious and decide to run some "Experiments" but at the age 17 and under, your not ready at all. I find it very sad that your plan when you turn 18 is just to go out and get laid. What a dissapointment. When you turn 18, it's suppose to be an age where you start to be looked at as an adult, and to say its all about sex at 18 is really immature.

 

[LordMune]

Seriously, oral sex at the age of 15 is still young.

Er, on a somewhat related note, the age of consent in my country is 15. >_>
But then again, we don't have the problem of teen pregnancy, unlike the U.S.
Go figure.

 

[Super Sonic]

Er, on a somewhat related note, the age of consent in my country is 15. >_>

Be there in 5.

 

[ghetto_sora]

If you know anything about human nature, then you know humans tend to ask questions for a reason. I'm not sure why he decided to post this. He may want to be a A$$hat and exploit people. He may just be curious about how many people have copulated considering his young age. Or it could be rhetorical, or perhaps he just wants to answer a few personal questions. And it just so happens that anonimity is the advantage to all of these. And I didn't bother reading any posts between the last and first.

um buddy let me break it 2 ya...u read my sig..well...im a grrl..get it right jeez

 

[ghetto_sora]

and yes, before you say it, this is extremely immature....
My first time was when I was twelve. And up until I was about 13 and a half I KNEW it was the best decision I'd ever made. Before this I would have done ANYTHING for this girl. I just knew that I'd found my true love,and I wasn't gonna lose her to anyone. When it eventually came down to it, we were both ready and willing, no pressure, no drugs, no alcohol. Long after that our relationship seemed to go nowhere but UP, that's right, it sorta strengthened our relationship, made us trust each other more. Everything was going amazingly well for almost a year after that. But of course happiness doesn't last very long at this age. (Of course not...) Her dad got offered some CEO job in wyoming or something, and she had to move. I went ballistic!! We skipped school three days in a row and hung out at my house. She was moving that weekend. On thursday she anounced she was moving, and my friends knew that wasn't boding well with me. I tried to convince her parents to stay, hell, I even invited her to come live at my house! (my parents are really cool) But that sunday she moved away, and I've never seen her since.

Nowadays, I still think about her sometimes, and I wonder if I will see her again. But back to the topic, I've never done it once since her. We did it twice, and that was my brick wall. I wont give myself to anyone that I can't love like I loved her, bottom line.

WOW ...DATS SOO BEAUTIFUL ..FORGET WAT THOSE OTHER GUYS SEY THEY'RE SHYTHEADS ..I UNDERSTAND IT HAPPENS 2 ALOT OF PEOPLE..+ YES DAT WAS LOVE