Divorce in America is commonplace, but I can only assume from what I know of Pakistani culture that they aren't so supportive of the idea, which would tend to force people to work out their problems and compromise instead of being stubborn and selfish. Although, believe it or not, there are still very many even in America that do not believe in divorce, and feel that any problem can be solved within the marriage. Personally, I could name a few things that would convince me divorce would be necessary, such as physical abuse and emotional damage, but for the most part I think that two reasonable people can solve a problem with little issue.