Well I'll be staying at the same shore house after prom with a girl I've had a crush on for 3 years now. There will be alcohol involved. I really want to kiss her/make-out with her. I'm pretty sure she's not into me but that may be because I've never showed interest in her. I have two ideas.
1) Completely force myself on her. Just find the right time, sit down next to her, and just kiss her and see how she reacts. I know she won't be grossed out because we are friends and we playfully flirt with each other a lot so it's just a matter of getting rejected after, which would be okay because I accomplished my goal. Worst case scenario, I can blame it on the alcohol, like Jamie Foxx.
2) Find a good time and go talk to her, preferably in private. Flat out tell her how I feel about her. Tell her that I want to kiss her really badly and see how it goes from there. This is obviously the more respectful and correct way. But problem is, if she says no, it's no for good and I lose my chance forever. And most likely, she'd say no because she's a prude and doesn't really like being sexual.
I really feel like #1 would be the much more effective choice. The cons to #1 are that she may dislike me from that point on. But, she goes to college next year and I don't so who cares? I won't see much of her again. The cons to #2 is that it'll be straight up awkward for the rest of our lives between us. And I may never reach my goal of kissing her. Please help. Vote and give any other opinions please.
1) Completely force myself on her. Just find the right time, sit down next to her, and just kiss her and see how she reacts. I know she won't be grossed out because we are friends and we playfully flirt with each other a lot so it's just a matter of getting rejected after, which would be okay because I accomplished my goal. Worst case scenario, I can blame it on the alcohol, like Jamie Foxx.
2) Find a good time and go talk to her, preferably in private. Flat out tell her how I feel about her. Tell her that I want to kiss her really badly and see how it goes from there. This is obviously the more respectful and correct way. But problem is, if she says no, it's no for good and I lose my chance forever. And most likely, she'd say no because she's a prude and doesn't really like being sexual.
I really feel like #1 would be the much more effective choice. The cons to #1 are that she may dislike me from that point on. But, she goes to college next year and I don't so who cares? I won't see much of her again. The cons to #2 is that it'll be straight up awkward for the rest of our lives between us. And I may never reach my goal of kissing her. Please help. Vote and give any other opinions please.