there's nothing more supportive than instilling doubt in people about the ones they love, for sure. pardon me!
honestly after 3 years and all the work financially and logistically that's been put into it, it is so hard for me to believe she'd just be messing with him.
As usual, the point goes straight over your head. Let me spell it out for you. Even if this girl didn't have a horrible reputation, even if we knew for a fact that she wasn't manipulating him, even if they are in love and this guy isn't just following his dick and his imagination halfway across the country, even if those were all non-issues, HE'S STILL TALKING ABOUT MOVING IN WITH A GIRL THAT HE'S NEVER EVEN MET FACE TO FACE. Being in love with somebody and being able to remain sane while sharing a living space with them are two entirely different things, and they often don't rhyme well with one another. I could sit here all day listing off people that I absolutely cherish, and whom I would also never want to live with for any reason whatsoever. You know how I can make that judgment? Because I've actually met them.
Never mind all of the ambiguity surrounding this girl's trustworthiness. It's just a shitty fcuking idea, and it would still be a shitty fcuking idea if she were Mother Teresa.