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[Traskix]

so school is starting in like 2 weeks for me
but its gonna be my Sr. year of high school (wooooo!)
bad thing is im starting it at a new school (gonna suck) where i kno maybe 2 people but i doubt i'll hang out with them becuz its been forever since i seen them and they got thier own lives.
so new school will that mean new friends and a new me?
thats what im aiming for but a part of me just wants to be a loner
and i'm super shy and quiet so that doesn't help, and considered nice, i guess thats a good thing but i'm tired of being called the goody too-shu girl
so i guess im asking u guys what should i do and any advice

 

[Lycanthrope]

Well, the best thing to do if you are looking for new friends is to try joining different clubs and groups that you are interested in. Say, if you enjoy acting and plays and whatnot, join the Drama Club.

Other than that, all I can really say is that I wish you the best at your new school.

 

[Crossroads]

It's senior year. Last year of bullshit, just go through the motions and go to college. Make new friends there.

 

[Apollo]

It's senior year. Last year of bullshit, just go through the motions and go to college. Make new friends there.

This is what I agree with. It's not like you'll be with these kids for a while.

 

[Traskix]

thanks guys

 

[Unabomber]

just do your own thing. you'll make friends and what-not.

just don't pretend/ try to be something you're not.

 

[coolfresh1224]

just find your hobby find someone who enjoys ur hobby and everything should work out

 

[qster]

Just be yourself and don't seem desperate and friends will come naturally.

 

[Deleted member 74488]

On the first day look at those bastards and say. "Waddup bitches?" xD

 

[coolfresh1224]

so basicaly what coolfresh would do?

 

[Aqua.]

be the smart one, sell your answers, ull be like relly cool. seriously. and it's not being fake,

 

[Traskix]

On the first day look at those bastards and say. "Waddup bitches?" xD

haha i like that idea

 

[Crossroads]

haha i like that idea

Definitely won't get beat up or targeted for that.

 

[~azure.requiem]

so school is starting in like 2 weeks for me
but its gonna be my Sr. year of high school (wooooo!)
bad thing is im starting it at a new school (gonna suck) where i kno maybe 2 people but i doubt i'll hang out with them becuz its been forever since i seen them and they got thier own lives.
so new school will that mean new friends and a new me?
thats what im aiming for but a part of me just wants to be a loner
and i'm super shy and quiet so that doesn't help, and considered nice, i guess thats a good thing but i'm tired of being called the goody too-shu girl
so i guess im asking u guys what should i do and any advice

~ giiirrrrl, this is actually one of the best things that could happen to you. i don't know if you like who you used to be or not, but now is the time to make a few changes in your personality if you want. no one knows who you are, so make the best of it.

 

[❖Ħλν?₡❖]

i don't know if you like who you used to be or not, but now is the time to make a few changes in your personality if you want. no one knows who you are, so make the best of it.

I am sorry but this is just dumb.
You should never EVER change who you are or create another personality just to fit in with the "in-crowd". You would only be lying to yourself, and your new friends would probably only be friends with the fabrication that you had created to get on their good side.

My advice is to just be yourself, you know, do what you would normally do. Join some clubs that spark your interest as well, because you would obviously meet others with the same likes as you. Well that's my advice.

 

[qster]

~ giiirrrrl, this is actually one of the best things that could happen to you. i don't know if you like who you used to be or not, but now is the time to make a few changes in your personality if you want. no one knows who you are, so make the best of it.

Worst advice I have ever heard on a topic like this. Again, just be yourself.

 

[Unabomber]

do not "change" your personality. i don't even comprehend why someone would want to.