Help/Support ► The LGBT Help and Support Thread (v3)

[Audo]

Ohh wow. My bad lol.

To Audo-Just relax and take deep breaths. Try and downplay the event in your mind. Like mentally prepare yourself.

I have to touch him and his body a lot though. I don't think breathing will help, lol.

 

[Firo]

Like I said mentally prepare yourself. Is the guy you're crushing on gay?

 

[Audo]

No.

 

[Firo]

Well then masturbate before you take his pictures.

 

[Audo]

What is with people and suggesting stuff like that?
I am not sex-focused.

 

[Firo]

It doesn't matter if you're sex focused or not. It'll stop you from getting any urges and it will relax you.

 

[Audo]

Or it will have the exact opposite effect and will it make me think of sex and him, and then when i actually see him, it will make me think of sex, which would then make me flustered, and blush, and etc. to even more of a degree.

Besides, i'm not some horny rampant teenager that needs to jerk-off just to get through human interactions.

 

[Firo]

Just stay focused on the project and take breaks so you can calm yourself down.

 

[Audo]

You make it sound like the sight of his exposed stomach is going to turn me inoperable.
"Taking breaks" to "calm myself down" is just going to make it even more obvious that I like him. >.<

 

[Firo]

Or it will make you seem like your focused and taking your time.

 

[Audo]

If i was focused, wouldnt it make more sense to not take breaks?

 

[Firo]

Not if you want to do the job right.

 

[Audo]

Taking breaks more seems like it would waste time, and given what i have to do to him before i can even start taking photos, it would probably make me seem less focused.

 

[Firo]

Hmmmm. Have you thought of being up front with him?

 

[Audo]

Up front with him about... what?

 

[Firo]

Having a crush on him.

 

[Audo]

lol. Yes, i have thought about it many many times.
But it is too complicated for me to actually tell him, at least right now.

 

[Firo]

So what are you more afraid of? Making a fool of yourself? Or slipping up and showing you have a crush on him?

 

[Audo]

Those sound like one and the same.

 

[Firo]

If you say so lol. Does the guy know you're Bi?