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Ya know, with arguments like this I've noticed a few things. For one they always start with an event that rubs one side the wrong way. The one that rubbed the other wrong will try to explain their actions, and the other will shoot it down and tell them why it makes them upset. After that is where it goes really wrong, instead of staying on topic the course of the conversation steers away from the main issue and it becomes a battle of the two trying to protect either their pride, or their point.
In this case it was Nightmare's template. Orion says he said those things because really he would prefer if the writer fixed it, or rather thought more about the mechanics of his template. I know his intentions were good, though I think it came off as too brash because quite simply he 'doesn't know Nightmare' and therefore doesn't know what type of criticism he best responds to. This caused him to become upset, which in turn upset Promise, who is his friend.
People always think they are right in their argument, but that's what confuses the living hell out of me. Unless you really know the person how can you make definitive claims about them? That's why I think people should make more of an attempt to understand each other, rather than attacking them or waiting for them to make the smallest mistake so you can jump on it and discredit them. Or at least stay on the topic and work it out.
Sooo~ I would really like to hear what you two's issue is with the TOPIC. Not each other, because you don't know a gotdammed thing about each other.
*waits to be ignored*
In this case it was Nightmare's template. Orion says he said those things because really he would prefer if the writer fixed it, or rather thought more about the mechanics of his template. I know his intentions were good, though I think it came off as too brash because quite simply he 'doesn't know Nightmare' and therefore doesn't know what type of criticism he best responds to. This caused him to become upset, which in turn upset Promise, who is his friend.
People always think they are right in their argument, but that's what confuses the living hell out of me. Unless you really know the person how can you make definitive claims about them? That's why I think people should make more of an attempt to understand each other, rather than attacking them or waiting for them to make the smallest mistake so you can jump on it and discredit them. Or at least stay on the topic and work it out.
Sooo~ I would really like to hear what you two's issue is with the TOPIC. Not each other, because you don't know a gotdammed thing about each other.
*waits to be ignored*
