Help/Support ► Stalker Problem Please Help

[ShadowXIII]

Ok, I'm in a happy relationship with my girlfriend, but there's also a girl that stalks me since 7th grade. She moved away, but has my cell#, house #, address, aim address, msn address, myspace, gaia account, and lots more. She came back, and continued stalking me in the mall and barnes and noble, and basically wherevver i go. I try to be her friend, but she's annoying, and I can't stand her friends. She pretended to get over me, but still stalks me, by saying she has a boyfriend. but no one likes her except for her 2 friends and their groups.

One time i was sick in bed for a week, and she's constantly texting me

* Hello
* Answer me
*your not funny
*A-hole, answer my texts.

stuff like that. i answer, what do you want. im f-ing sick, not even seeing my texts till i start to get better.
then she replies this word for word

your such a f-ing a-hole. go f-yourself. your not sick. where's the nice dave who actually cares about people go get a life and get out of mine, you d*ck.

but then the next day she would come all over me. and thanks to her, she made my 1st kiss suck. she just comes over and kisses me, trying to do tongue.

she still stalks me, and i have a lot of girls for friends, and whenever she sees them, she looks like she's ready to get a knife out at them. basically, how do i get rid of a stalker. and trust me, if she acted normal, i would be happy, but she's scary.

 

[Nutari]

Dude. Get all your stuff changed and move to canada(joking about canada) But tell your parents or the cops if she keeps stalking you either that or tell her to go to the lunnie bin. If you need any more advice private message me i can help cuz were my parents work i learned how people think and act its very wierd but tell the cops if she keeps it up. Allright sorry your first kiss got ruined i havent got mine yet so i dont feel ur pain... (yet):bored:

 

[Lycanthrope]

To counter a stalker, you have to BE a stalker.

You see, the only way to rid yourself of a stalker is to stalk the said stalker. You see, if you're all up in her business, she'll eventually get weary of stalking you. It's like fighting fire with fire.

Also, be SURE your girlfriend knows that if you try to stalk her to get her away from you, it's not that you like the stalker, its solely to make everything better for you AND your girlfriend, since girlfriends don't like their boyfriends getting stalked.

Or, you could simply have your girlfriend fight this stalker until the stalker won't stalk you again.

 

[ShadowXIII]

Dude. Get all your stuff changed and move to canada(joking about canada) But tell your parents or the cops if she keeps stalking you either that or tell her to go to the lunnie bin. If you need any more advice private message me i can help cuz were my parents work i learned how people think and act its very wierd but tell the cops if she keeps it up. Allright sorry your first kiss got ruined i havent got mine yet so i dont feel ur pain... (yet):bored:

got new email accounts twice on aim, once on msn, then went back to the 1st one. i changed my cell# but she's friends with one of my friends (just found that out recently). i even tried telling her to meet up so we can talk about this. as for my parents, lol they think she's a "special girl with special needs and just be nice." i don't really wanto call the cops, cuz she does have issues that she can't help. i tried being nice, tried making her hate me (but i found out she cuts my name into her wrist to "forgive" me). she scares me, and one time, she invited herself into my house when i had a few of my friends over, and she got into a fight with mi girlfriend.

To counter a stalker, you have to BE a stalker.

You see, the only way to rid yourself of a stalker is to stalk the said stalker. You see, if you're all up in her business, she'll eventually get weary of stalking you. It's like fighting fire with fire.

Also, be SURE your girlfriend knows that if you try to stalk her to get her away from you, it's not that you like the stalker, its solely to make everything better for you AND your girlfriend, since girlfriends don't like their boyfriends getting stalked.

Or, you could simply have your girlfriend fight this stalker until the stalker won't stalk you again.

1. she would think its a dream come true ( my stalker that is)
2. my girlfriend is afraid of my stalker.

 

[Darkly Aesthetic]

It's like fighting fire with fire.

I'm no expert in fire here, but doesn't that usually make the fire worse?

 

[ShadowXIII]

also, you don't want her to hate anyone cuz she has a very evil side to her when she gets angry. kind of like the hulk.

 

[Lycanthrope]

I'm no expert in fire here, but doesn't that usually make the fire worse?

Actually, wild fires can be put out by fires hitting it head on.

your stalker sounds like a maniac bitch.

 

[JuttingRock]

Don't respond to any of her calls/texts but keep them in case you need to take her ass to court.

Also, don't try to be her friend as most of the time it will only feed her psychosis. Stay away from her, change your daily patterns and maybe even your friends.

 

[ShadowXIII]

your stalker sounds like a maniac bitch.

lol, she doesn't sound like a maniac bitch, she is a maniac bitch

 

[Lycanthrope]

Yeah, I would imagine.

Really, if you feel my "Stalkee becomes Stalker" theory won't work, try flat out telling her to get the f*uck out of your life in the most specific way you can.

 

[Gabo]

I don't know what you should do about your texting.
But for the other things, block her if its AIM or mark her as spam for emails.
If you're afraid of her making other names and harassing you, I know on AIM you can make the settings so you can only accept IMs from people on your buddy list.

 

[Nutari]

DUDE IF NONE OF THESE GREAT SUGESTIONS WORK YOU ARE SO SREWED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And by a Maniac Bitch

 

[violent_anger]

Actually, wild fires can be put out by fires hitting it head on.

I think that's because the two fires make such a giant fire that soon there isn't anything left to light on fire. Because the giant fire already lit everything on fire.




So anyways, she only wants you because you avoid her. Get really close and clingy and annoying with her and she'll be running away from you.

 

[Nutari]

Dude WHAT IF SHE IS ONE OF THE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE AH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA THAT WOULD BE TERRIBLE BY THE WAY:bored:

 

[Lycanthrope]

Dude WHAT IF SHE IS ONE OF THE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE AH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA THAT WOULD BE TERRIBLE BY THE WAY:bored:

Just be quiet. Said stalker probably wouldn't join a Kingdom Hearts fansite. And don't spam for the sake of getting another post.

 

[Aphex]

Ok, I'm in a happy relationship with my girlfriend, but there's also a girl that stalks me since 7th grade. She moved away, but has my cell#, house #, address, aim address, msn address, myspace, gaia account, and lots more. She came back, and continued stalking me in the mall and barnes and noble, and basically wherevver i go. I try to be her friend, but she's annoying, and I can't stand her friends. She pretended to get over me, but still stalks me, by saying she has a boyfriend. but no one likes her except for her 2 friends and their groups.

One time i was sick in bed for a week, and she's constantly texting me

* Hello
* Answer me
*your not funny
*A-hole, answer my texts.

stuff like that. i answer, what do you want. im f-ing sick, not even seeing my texts till i start to get better.
then she replies this word for word

your such a f-ing a-hole. go f-yourself. your not sick. where's the nice dave who actually cares about people go get a life and get out of mine, you d*ck.

but then the next day she would come all over me. and thanks to her, she made my 1st kiss suck. she just comes over and kisses me, trying to do tongue.

she still stalks me, and i have a lot of girls for friends, and whenever she sees them, she looks like she's ready to get a knife out at them. basically, how do i get rid of a stalker. and trust me, if she acted normal, i would be happy, but she's scary.

Dude. . . build auto-turrets and plant land mines all about the lawn of your house. Problem solved.

But seriously now, I would just tell that girl to f-ck off already. Not to sound harsh or anything but if you're tired of it, just tell her off.

 

[Marly]

I dunno if you have tried this or not... I had the same problem.... majorly less severe though (thank God)... what I did was... I snapped... I just went off on her and cussed her out... its hard.... but when its as annoying as this girl or your girl.. you just have to...... shes tried to be friends with me.. i just ignore her... shes a lot less annoying now

 

[ShadowXIII]

shes been stalking me since 7th grade, and Im going into Senior year at high school! i tried being her friend, fighting fire with fire, ignoring her, blocking her, talking to her about the subject, and even acting like a jerk towards her. She's evil. she started stalking everyone on my myspace! and she has tons of love notes for me in her notebook! and she's as scary on the outside as her inside!

 

[Avalon]

Go to the cops. Really tho, the way it sounds, she won't back off at all. She's one of those people that are completely obsessed with you. If you don't want to go to the cops, have you tried talking to her parents at all? Just a thought =/ Really, I say just go to the cops.

 

[Gabo]

Go to the cops. Really tho, the way it sounds, she won't back off at all. She's one of those people that are completely obsessed with you. If you don't want to go to the cops, have you tried talking to her parents at all? Just a thought =/ Really, I say just go to the cops.

Don't be irrational.
Cops first is icky.
I do suggest her parents first.
And really trying to get your parents on your side.

Even if you called the cops, that wouldn't accomplish much without your parents aid.
You'd most likely want a restraining order if its really as bad as you say it is. You'd need your parents help with that.

Do remember to save things she sends you though.
Mostly anything verbally abusive or threatening towards you. If she threatens to hurt herself as well, save thatttt.

Yeah.
~shrugs~