So, over the summer, I found myself with, for lack of a better term, a deeper affection for a friend of mine. While we had only met in March, at the time, it was like we had known each other for longer. We had been pretty close personally, and naturally, I had expected us to become closer. But at the same time that I had developed this deeper affection, she had stared falling for another guy. I had no real objection to the relationship that they had, other than that I had felt a bit let down, as I had tried really hard to make things happen between her and I.
Unfortunately, our time together was short by that time, and while I think we both understood each other, things went down hill from there. She told me that she just wanted a bit of space, which ultimately turned into the two of us ignoring each other's existence for two months. These two months, I had felt rather out of the groove of things. But the other day, we started talking to each other via facebook. The basic run down of what she told me was that she thinks I'm a sweetheart, and that she felt bad that I had felt hurt.
Being the person I am, I believed her.
What's more, is we saw each other earlier today, though it wasn't for good business, and we only spoke for a minute, but I think we've reached more of an understanding.
So the problem I'm in right now, is whether it's worth the time to resume the friendship we had had, after all that had happened.
Unfortunately, our time together was short by that time, and while I think we both understood each other, things went down hill from there. She told me that she just wanted a bit of space, which ultimately turned into the two of us ignoring each other's existence for two months. These two months, I had felt rather out of the groove of things. But the other day, we started talking to each other via facebook. The basic run down of what she told me was that she thinks I'm a sweetheart, and that she felt bad that I had felt hurt.
Being the person I am, I believed her.
What's more, is we saw each other earlier today, though it wasn't for good business, and we only spoke for a minute, but I think we've reached more of an understanding.
So the problem I'm in right now, is whether it's worth the time to resume the friendship we had had, after all that had happened.