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Soras1_anOnly

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I really hate to whine about my biz but its become to much to bear, my mom doesn't understand, my bestfriend doesn't understand, i don't dare goto my other friend and espeacially nobody at skool so my fate will lie in your hands...

I don't fit in anywhere. ANYWHERE!! and i'm not exaggerating, I was scared to even post this because I don't fit in so much. I'm a lil bit of everything, and that means everywhere I go I'm going to be diffrent. At my skool Diffrent is Bad. So I get looked down on. Im not preppy enough for them, Im not ghetto enough for them, Im not fast enough for them, not Tomboyish enough for them, I'm too shy for them !! If I hang with the preppies (not labeling nobody) and then I accidentally start talking about something like KH2. They look at me weird then Im quiet and there's an akward silince then pretty soon I'm banned from the convo. Or if i'm sitting with some people who likes KH2 manga and stuff like that then I mention something like clothes or hair the same thing happens!! All that stuff is important to me equally, but it always seems like i'm hiding one part or another from people. I'm really starting to go crazy, please somebody help. :( Like I said I hate to whine, but i've been holding my feelings in for too long. I fell like im gonna burst or something.
 

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I'd suggest that you stop stereotyping people at your school - maybe that's the problem? Just because those 'preppy' girls dress a certain way, doesn't mean they'll think you're crazy for liking a video game. Try talking to different people, especially ones in your class. See if you share similiar interests with someone. Don't try to fit into a clique through the way you dress - then they'd just think you're a poseur.
 

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It's sorta hard to find someone like me at least when im being honest with myself. Last year I had the same problem but I didn't handle it in the right way... I just kept quiet and never ever talked, people would come up to me ask why don't you ever talk. So my mom put me into counsling (that was a mistake) when I got called there to the couslers office or came back to class late, rumor got around that I was an anoricx,suicidal, and depressed. Thats when people started thinking I was weird. But that was last year and im trying to start fresh but its impossible cause now, since then I was taught to be myself. When i am myself, people think i'm even weirder. I wanna be able to have friends by being myself and make it to high school in one peice. Thanks Isamu, i'll PM you lata. :) PS. I don't like to sterotype often but it's kinda hard to explain where I stand in my school without sterotyping.
 

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I'm an Outsider, I have no friends, yet I'm not anti social enough to be considered a complete loner. That's what it sounds like to me, you could be an outsider. An Outsider is a person who isn't a nerd, goth, or any of those sterotypes, they don't fit in any group or category either, they could be mixture of them all or non of them.
 

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don't feel bad, i'm 21 years old now, and i've been dealing with the same thing since waaayyyyy back in the day. u don't feel like u fit in any where and it seems like no matter what u say somebody is looking at u like your nuts. the best advice is stop hiding one thing or another, if u want to talk about clothes and kh do it! somebody is going to hate something u do no matter what your doing so u might as well do something u like doing and have some fun, as soon as i started doing that i know i felt a tons better. and soo what u may never be mr. popular at least your happy. also you'll find once u start talkin about things u like other people that were worried to talk about that stuff casue they were thinkin the same thing u were, will actually start talkin about it. trust me it gets better, i'm living proof
 

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Soras1_anOnly said:
It's sorta hard to find someone like me at least when im being honest with myself. Last year I had the same problem but I didn't handle it in the right way... I just kept quiet and never ever talked, people would come up to me ask why don't you ever talk. So my mom put me into counsling (that was a mistake) when I got called there to the couslers office or came back to class late, rumor got around that I was an anoricx,suicidal, and depressed. Thats when people started thinking I was weird. But that was last year and im trying to start fresh but its impossible cause now, since then I was taught to be myself. When i am myself, people think i'm even weirder. I wanna be able to have friends by being myself and make it to high school in one peice. Thanks Isamu, i'll PM you lata. :) PS. I don't like to sterotype often but it's kinda hard to explain where I stand in my school without sterotyping.
I dont care what you say or what you do your still going to be cool to me.
 

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dont worry you'll find someone who is like you sooner or later. Whats so weird about changing the topic all of a sudden they think your weird for that? I do that all the time. I dont think its weird at all.
 

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i know exactly what you mean...pm me or something!
 
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