well basically me and 2 of my friends/ ex friends got into a petty argument and now its caused major division among all my friends that know them
the argument was over something really pathetic aswell, i had a party and due to them not being able to come to it (and me not willing to change it to another day that suits them) , they got angry at me about it rather than simply state "we can't make it"
now one of them in particular, matt began abusing me, calling me an idiot, a douche etc
and the other one nick is more or less his follower and only sees matts opinion in all arguments (no matter what matt has done, he does not care) being that nick has had few friends in life, and matt is one of his only ones from years back
so i got angry and banned/blocked matt , which all of a sudden i was accused of not letting him "defend himself" by matt (he sent this through e-mail)
i called nick an "a$$ kisser* when he didn't let it go aswell
now even though they started it, i even apologized which didn't turn out so well from both ends (both times i ended up blocked on msn, which i still currently am)
but as i said this has caused division among my other friends, now they understand im more or less right and i've atleast attempted to stop the argument
but the other 2 are going around making lies behind my back and using my other friends to pass on messages/e-mail me stuff to complain about what i do, what i've said (they "monitor" my blog looking for any excuse to complain , always asking my other friends what im doing etc)
yet ironically i get the hell blasted out of me from the two of them if i dare do the reverse (send messages through friends or e-mail them when i apologized a second time)
its unfortunate that we know the same friends, but this has just become ridiculous
so basically does anyone have any ideas of solving this, stopping it full stop or resolving the case?
i've had enough of the argument, yet unfortunately due to common friends can't get out of it in a way i can think of
even reading over this , it sounds extremely stupid considering age (all of us are 20 or older :closedeyes: )
the argument was over something really pathetic aswell, i had a party and due to them not being able to come to it (and me not willing to change it to another day that suits them) , they got angry at me about it rather than simply state "we can't make it"
now one of them in particular, matt began abusing me, calling me an idiot, a douche etc
and the other one nick is more or less his follower and only sees matts opinion in all arguments (no matter what matt has done, he does not care) being that nick has had few friends in life, and matt is one of his only ones from years back
so i got angry and banned/blocked matt , which all of a sudden i was accused of not letting him "defend himself" by matt (he sent this through e-mail)
i called nick an "a$$ kisser* when he didn't let it go aswell
now even though they started it, i even apologized which didn't turn out so well from both ends (both times i ended up blocked on msn, which i still currently am)
but as i said this has caused division among my other friends, now they understand im more or less right and i've atleast attempted to stop the argument
but the other 2 are going around making lies behind my back and using my other friends to pass on messages/e-mail me stuff to complain about what i do, what i've said (they "monitor" my blog looking for any excuse to complain , always asking my other friends what im doing etc)
yet ironically i get the hell blasted out of me from the two of them if i dare do the reverse (send messages through friends or e-mail them when i apologized a second time)
its unfortunate that we know the same friends, but this has just become ridiculous
so basically does anyone have any ideas of solving this, stopping it full stop or resolving the case?
i've had enough of the argument, yet unfortunately due to common friends can't get out of it in a way i can think of
even reading over this , it sounds extremely stupid considering age (all of us are 20 or older :closedeyes: )
