wow it's been a while haha
anyways!
to my problem at hand
about 2 months ago i broke up with my then girlfriend of a year and a half
and regretted it deeply
i tried my best to get her back
but it didnt work
now, about a month after we broke up
she started dating someone else
and apparently loves him
in my opinion its just misplaced emotions still about me
(not trying to sound self centered haha)
but while they were going out
a few times she said she still loves me and everything
but we'll most likely never be together again
which over time i've come to accept
the whole thing has been hell for me
2 of the worst times i thought about suicide
but don't worry
after, i realized thats stupid
my friends helped me with that
im getting over her
its been slow work
but im almost there
but the problem is that she wants to be friends
she still wants me in her life
i mean, i feel the same
a year and a half is a lot of time to spend with someone
you don't just want them gone
but i can't do it
its painful just to see her profile picture on facebook with her and her new boyfriend
now let alone be her friend
since we broke up
she's been smoking and drinking and stuff
and recently said she does because theres no one to really help her
it was me
but then i left
and i agreed to be her friend and then she'd quit doing that stuff
but i dont think i can do it
i also asked why her boyfriend doesnt support her
she said he does
but clearly he's not helping if she needs me
so idk what to do
i want to help her
but its too painful
im thinking about talking to her in person
and having a final goodbye
then we stop talking and everything altogether
any ideas?suggestions?
anyways!
to my problem at hand
about 2 months ago i broke up with my then girlfriend of a year and a half
and regretted it deeply
i tried my best to get her back
but it didnt work
now, about a month after we broke up
she started dating someone else
and apparently loves him
in my opinion its just misplaced emotions still about me
(not trying to sound self centered haha)
but while they were going out
a few times she said she still loves me and everything
but we'll most likely never be together again
which over time i've come to accept
the whole thing has been hell for me
2 of the worst times i thought about suicide
but don't worry
after, i realized thats stupid
my friends helped me with that
im getting over her
its been slow work
but im almost there
but the problem is that she wants to be friends
she still wants me in her life
i mean, i feel the same
a year and a half is a lot of time to spend with someone
you don't just want them gone
but i can't do it
its painful just to see her profile picture on facebook with her and her new boyfriend
now let alone be her friend
since we broke up
she's been smoking and drinking and stuff
and recently said she does because theres no one to really help her
it was me
but then i left
and i agreed to be her friend and then she'd quit doing that stuff
but i dont think i can do it
i also asked why her boyfriend doesnt support her
she said he does
but clearly he's not helping if she needs me
so idk what to do
i want to help her
but its too painful
im thinking about talking to her in person
and having a final goodbye
then we stop talking and everything altogether
any ideas?suggestions?