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I usually don't do these kind of things, or at least, I haven't did one of these threads in a long while.

So to put it simple, I'm finding myself wonder about what i like and what i don't like; and yes this revolves around males and females. Like I love women, but recently, I'm also taking it into account that I might also like males too. I know this isn't anything new for people around my age, actually I know it's very common; but it's new for me, and I'm not completely sure what to do about it.

I've thought about several things to do, but actually doing them is the problem here. If it helps or not, but I'm also "fantasizing" about males. I'm not sure if this makes me gay/homo or if I'm just Bi-Curious
 

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You're probably just bi-curious. It happens to all if us eventually. Some go homosexual. Some don't. It's your choice.
 

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If you like men, you like men. That's all well and fine, and I don't see what the big deal is.
 

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If you like men, you like men. That's all well and fine, and I don't see what the big deal is.

Some people are raised in an environment where it is condemned, and they may fear rejection from their parents.


King, it is completely normal for you to be experiencing this, so my advice for it is plain and simple: leave it. Why be so hasty to label something that can take years to figure out? Just enjoy the feelings you are feeling, and maybe even act on them. You will only know what works for you if you try everything out and make a judgment from there.

I advise you refrain from telling your parents about this until you are 100 percent certain because different parents will react differently to coming out. Not everyone is so tolerant.
 

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Sounds like you are bi curious considering you find yourself being interested in men.
 

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well there is only one way to find out. lol



give it some time, if its still really new to you, your mind still might be getting used to the possibility of being with a different gender then what you have been used to your whole life

see if you really honestly like a gender, or another, or both
 

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I am 100% with LongLiveLife. You're not going to be getting any advice better than that, I guarantee. Just go with it and see where it takes you; this doesn't need to be a decision.


You're probably just bi-curious. It happens to all if us eventually. Some go homosexual. Some don't. It's your choice.
No one can just "go homosexual." You either are or you aren't; anything else is pretend, or denial. It's not a choice, and there is such a thing as bisexuality -- it's not back & white.

And yes, everyone, I realize I am talking to a thirteen-year-old. :C
 

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If you like men, you like men. That's all well and fine, and I don't see what the big deal is.

My father isn't the biggest supporter of homosexuals. >_>

Some people are raised in an environment where it is condemned, and they may fear rejection from their parents.


King, it is completely normal for you to be experiencing this, so my advice for it is plain and simple: leave it. Why be so hasty to label something that can take years to figure out? Just enjoy the feelings you are feeling, and maybe even act on them. You will only know what works for you if you try everything out and make a judgment from there.

I advise you refrain from telling your parents about this until you are 100 percent certain because different parents will react differently to coming out. Not everyone is so tolerant.

Well, I don't really have to worry about my mom judging me or even worry about her accepting, because she already said that she'll accept me no matter the reason. But my dad is another story. He's basically why I'm confused and stuff. It's probably just fear of him looking down on me and such, but guess I can expect that.

Sounds like you are bi curious considering you find yourself being interested in men.

OH trust me, I know I'm Bi-curious, but this has been going on and off for the past two years.



I am 100% with LongLiveLife. You're not going to be getting any advice better than that, I guarantee. Just go with it and see where it takes you; this doesn't need to be a decision.


No one can just "go homosexual." You either are or you aren't; anything else is pretend, or denial. It's not a choice, and there is such a thing as bisexuality -- it's not back & white.

And yes, everyone, I realize I am talking to a thirteen-year-old. :C

Yeah, I know there's no time limit to which I have to decide; that much is present to me. I guess I can say that I'm a bit afraid of what the result of this will be. :/
 

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yeah, try not to worry too much about your dad
I know its easier said then done, but find out who you are first, and then deal with the repercussions, dont let it affect your decision. ya and as LongLiveLife said, dont say anything until you are 100% sure
 

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If you're just curious about whether or not you're Bi, you're dad doesn't need to know.
And if it's an off and on thing, go test it out. Date a guy, see what happens.
 

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I am 100% with LongLiveLife. You're not going to be getting any advice better than that, I guarantee. Just go with it and see where it takes you; this doesn't need to be a decision.



No one can just "go homosexual." You either are or you aren't; anything else is pretend, or denial. It's not a choice, and there is such a thing as bisexuality -- it's not back & white.

And yes, everyone, I realize I am talking to a thirteen-year-old. :C

Well then I am sorry for sounding like an idiot.
 

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I usually don't do these kind of things, or at least, I haven't did one of these threads in a long while.

So to put it simple, I'm finding myself wonder about what i like and what i don't like; and yes this revolves around males and females. Like I love women, but recently, I'm also taking it into account that I might also like males too. I know this isn't anything new for people around my age, actually I know it's very common; but it's new for me, and I'm not completely sure what to do about it.

I've thought about several things to do, but actually doing them is the problem here. If it helps or not, but I'm also "fantasizing" about males. I'm not sure if this makes me gay/homo or if I'm just Bi-Curious

Because of this sudden revelation i must turn all my future sig requests to other people who are straight....sorry king but that is how it is!

not really!...Hey!......bi-curiosity killed the cat...ok maybe not....

Screw a guy and let us know how you feel afterwards. JUST KIDDING

Seriously though....you know yourself and no one else does...except for God...that is if you believe in Him..anyways.....you already know how the fam will react....so why worry about the others outside of that? Even if I don't know you aside from being my Royal Sig Maker....i support whatever you choose to do.
 

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Dude, I can guarantee every guy goes through something like this. It's probably something that will pass.
 

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I'm also experiencing bicuriosity, it's perfectly normal. What you find attractive in people your same gender could be something you'd wish to have, for example; I find males with athletic bodies attractive, but, I also wish to have that. In summation, it's perfectly normal to be bicuriosity, after all~

Teenage is the age of self-discovery.
 

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Hey, go with the flow man, see where that takes you
You'll find out eventually
 

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αsiя;5294830 said:
Well if it goes up......

Well, let me be a bit more detailed... If you actually like it, it doesn't necessarily mean you're gay, it's just, for example, you like the quality of porn between gay and straight.
 
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