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Seriously?
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Gaah! Alaude I didn't mean to be a troll, I was just saying, you're taking this the wrong way!
play your cards right and you'll be able to say that to her this weekend
I have her number er... nevermind
Haha you said intensity.. Well I'm not a Doctor of Relationships *shows off PhD*, but your trying too hard, and by too hard I mean too hard, give her some space and just be a friend for her, listen to what she says and it'll all come naturally.
One thing I've learned about women at your age is that if they make your life miserable then ask them out or move on.
Most people your age don't know what they want romantically speaking at your age , they are in an imaginary adult hood environment. The same goes for most High School relationships which usually end in fun or tragedy . Which is why it's important to know what you're getting into and what it is for the other person
The only thing I suggest is that you level your head and control your privates. Ask yourself , realistically, what sort of relationship does she want ( Just hanging out as friends ?) ( Romeo and Juliet ...) then if you want that sort of relationship seek it out. Most women around your age , girls rather, are more mature then the boys and they have to keep a look out for the level headed smart ones. They don't want Romeo coming along and scaring them to death with" I LOVE YOU " "MARRY MEEEE!" ....no. Most girls just want to have fun and find friends and people they can hang out with .
You're young yet and your body and mind is over whelmed with your early feelings for a girl , you are probably over doing it . Step back for a minute, notice that she isn't bouncing off the walls for you and start to try to understand her as a person. This is reality and in reality your hormones are raging but most girls and even women don't really want to have sex.
I know your top priority isn't sex if at all sex but part of that whole opposites attracts thing is at a level of sexual maturity , at least in the inflamed sense of attraction you seem to currently have. Women are a little more quiet and reflective in this department , think of girls your age the same they were when you were younger , just a lot smarter with similar needs.
Actually you may even be that age, just be her friend the best that you can and don't try to win her over with make believe love mojo . It's not the right time for that .
Most people your age don't know what they want romantically speaking at your age , they are in an imaginary adult hood environment. The same goes for most High School relationships which usually end in fun or tragedy . Which is why it's important to know what you're getting into and what it is for the other person
The only thing I suggest is that you level your head and control your privates. Ask yourself , realistically, what sort of relationship does she want ( Just hanging out as friends ?) ( Romeo and Juliet ...) then if you want that sort of relationship seek it out. Most women around your age , girls rather, are more mature then the boys and they have to keep a look out for the level headed smart ones. They don't want Romeo coming along and scaring them to death with" I LOVE YOU " "MARRY MEEEE!" ....no. Most girls just want to have fun and find friends and people they can hang out with .
You're young yet and your body and mind is over whelmed with your early feelings for a girl , you are probably over doing it . Step back for a minute, notice that she isn't bouncing off the walls for you and start to try to understand her as a person. This is reality and in reality your hormones are raging but most girls and even women don't really want to have sex.
I know your top priority isn't sex if at all sex but part of that whole opposites attracts thing is at a level of sexual maturity , at least in the inflamed sense of attraction you seem to currently have. Women are a little more quiet and reflective in this department , think of girls your age the same they were when you were younger , just a lot smarter with similar needs.
Actually you may even be that age, just be her friend the best that you can and don't try to win her over with make believe love mojo . It's not the right time for that .
You're in middle school? And you bought her gold/diamond jewelry? That's your first problem. That's wayy too far, it's not going to get you in her good graces regardless. If she doesn't like you for you, why would you want to date her?
Also, few girls view getting a hand-made valentine's day gift and a poem appealing. I would go so far as to say most would view them as creepy.
And there's obviously no spark, whoever told you that is lying to you to make you feel better.
Also, few girls view getting a hand-made valentine's day gift and a poem appealing. I would go so far as to say most would view them as creepy.
And there's obviously no spark, whoever told you that is lying to you to make you feel better.
Intensity is a fairly funny word.Haha you said intensity.. Well I'm not a Doctor of Relationships *shows off PhD*, but your trying too hard, and by too hard I mean too hard, give her some space and just be a friend for her, listen to what she says and it'll all come naturally.
PhD for relationships?You guys are right! Thanks ! As for the spark thing I would argue but I won't!
! As for the spark thing I would argue but I won't!
Intensity is a fairly funny word.
Yes.. I make Mike Myers seem like.. Well someone who isn't that good in relationships compared to me!
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Rape her.
ahahahah bullshit.
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You sound like a bit of a stalker, to be honest. Sorry, but she just might not want things you can give her.
Not all girls are materialistic. Also, she might not even be into jewelry. I'm a girl and I'm not. I don't like wearing the stuff. Besides, she might not be comfortable accepting such expensive gifts from someone that she doesn't even know.
Get to know her first. Try and talk with her, ask her out, little things. They make a big difference. Try not to show her that you're a stalker, but rather that you're a person who's genuinely interested in her.
And don't try and buy her love. That just looks bad.
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You sound like a stalker.
Just let things come naturally and woo her subtly.
Life isn't fair kiddo.
Honestly dude, if you want to gain a girl's heart or whatever, don't be too desperate or act so suddenly or whatever creeps her out, that won't work. If you're gaining her kindness and so forth, don't ruin it by doing things to the point that make you go "Why did I do this" like the fact that you bought her jewelry. Hey, I'm just saying and if she keep rejecting you, please try to move on and also understand this: There are other girls who are capable of your heart. She doesn't have to be the "one" ya know? What if things go for the bad when your dating?
DUUUUUUDE.
There's no way in the coldest and deepest pits of hell that James Sunderland would jump in that you have enough money to buy her that at this age. o__o; Im 12, your age or around there or so, moving to 7th grade, and im not looking for a relationship anytime sooner, seriously, what the hell could you do when "dating" at my age? o__o There's something called " high school " and until then i'll be ready to date.
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Anyways, don't look pathetic infront of her and others. If she doesn't like you, just accept it and move on instead of wasting your time and "money" on that girl. o__o; If she actually likes you, she should say so herself since you already confessed to her, so what's not the problem to confess to you if she does like you. You must be intimidating her, actually, you're like trying to force her to like you with the whole "win her heart" thing.
There's no way in the coldest and deepest pits of hell
/small rant
Anyways, don't look pathetic infront of her and others. If she doesn't like you, just accept it and move on instead of wasting your time and "money" on that girl. o__o; If she actually likes you, she should say so herself since you already confessed to her, so what's not the problem to confess to you if she does like you. You must be intimidating her, actually, you're like trying to force her to like you with the whole "win her heart" thing.
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