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[Ashes Remnant]

Okay this is one many of you may have had to deal with... I have a crush on my best friend's girlfriend. _O: _O:

I need a smack or something... I'm muy, muy confuzzled. I don't know what to do now... Especially since I also have this little problem. I'm homeschooled. My Mom drags me to church every Sunday and Wednesday, and that's the full amount of people I see. So I don't have many choices when it comes to relationships. Last time I tried starting a relationship with a girl, said girl smacked me. My life sux0rz. T_T

 

[SifeOner]

1. Dude, you don't go out with your best friend girlfriend, even when they break up, it's disrespectful and it's going to make her look like a whore.
2. Don't worry about the church thing. My friend got a girlfriend that goes to church and they meet(except they broke up) but they still hang out, but don't worry about that.

When you want a girl friend, it's good if you know or get to know her best friend first, so she can give your crush good comments about you and etc. And you don't go and straight ask her out. Hang out with her, sneak out of eachothers houses and go to the mall or something(if you're a teen). You are a teenager right? Well after you know her for a month or so(or 2 weeks, like me ^.^) then you give signs, like calling her, hugging her, you know? Then when the times right and everythings quiet, you ask her out. Or just do like they do in the movies, look in eachothers eyes and go in for a long, deep, slow, kiss.

If it doesn't work, there are always more girls.

If anything happens, PM me I'll either help you more or make you feel better or w/e.

 

[Lycanthrope]

...Dude, you can't go out with your best friend's girlfriend. That makes your friend pissed off.

Try to avoid the girl AT ALL COSTS. Girlfriends come and go, but, your friends will be there.

Try to meet some new people. Granted, being homeschooled may give you a disadvantage in that area.

 

[black acid]

Dude, stay as far away from her as possible so that you don't jinx any accidents and try looking for other fish in the sea. trust me on this. if you've had thoughts like that then you'll need sometime to adjust too you're friends girl. if you can't find any chicks to bone try to atleast learn more about women try to make yourself look busy.

 

[Constellations]

its going to cause so many problems.dont worry im in a similar situation. i like a guy thats in a serious relationship. nothing goods gonna come out of it. as hard as it may seem, try to move on. i've been struggling with it for a few months now lol. eventually everything will turn out okay.

 

[Avalon]

How good of a friend is he? I'm joking don't do it. It will only end in you losing a friend over a girl. Which buy the way is a very stupid thing to do, there are a lot of others out there. Try and look for one at church thats what i did and we've been going out for 2 years

 

[Electropop]

Almost every post Started with the word..."dude."

o.0

anyways, Dont do it. =/ Becouse it can really screw you up. Just dont do it.

 

[bond of flames]

well, are they going out still?if they are then dont
if they arent then talk to your friend about it.see if he would be ok with the fact that u might be goin out with hs ex.
if he's ok with it then go.

 

[Deeman]

Protofan, whatever you do, do not start something with this girl unless she is free! It will only make things worse. You have to hold back your feelings and act normal around her. Try to get interested in someone else.

Wow man, I can relate. I'll PM you why.

 

[Danica Syer]

Well I'd suggest you wait a long while until she and him are broken up and he gets over her (if they ever break up) and hook up with her when he's dating another girl or doesn't want her anymore......okay that sounded harsh....but I think you know what I mean..

Another harsh advice...
or try to get over her.....and or talk to your friend about it! Make sure you do it in respectable terms!

Hope this advice helps!

 

[Deeman]

^By "talk to your friend about it", do you mean he should talk to the guy who's dating her? XD I sure hope not. That could ruin their friendship.

 

[CAB_IV]

the obvious solution is to go on a homocidal rampage.

but since this is not always practical, i think you should just forget about it. its a crush that will pass. Hopefully you don't have yourself in to deep.

I understand what its like to be lonely, and i know there is a burning need to have someone else to be close to, but in the end, you have to weigh in the reality of the situation. your friends are already limited, and so you don't want to loose them. additionally, the girl probably doesn't like you if she is his girlfriend, and so she isn't worth your time, efforts, or any extra feelings than are required among freinds. with luck, you can meet other people, and hopefully you know what you are doing, so that you don't get smacked again.

 

[Shadukai X]

I say you just wait it out until your said girl would break up with your friend. Watch the timing though, your friend might be spiteful if you date his ex.

 

[Sean]

well, if they break up then you should ask you friend if he still feels for her. if he does stay the hell away from her. if he dosent, wait a few weeks then go in for the kill...

 

[akuroku4ever]

Hi whats up? and (im probably very late for this question) but whats "oh crap"?

 

[akuroku4ever]

oops nvrmind i just read the first post...maybe i should've done that first...all well lol

 

[Sean]

sigh.*points to door* get out...

 

[bond of flames]

oops nvrmind i just read the first post...maybe i should've done that first...all well lol

you're always supposed to read the first post.
its basic stuff
gtfo
zangetsu, you own!just cuz bleach does!

but for spamming sake........

i say go for it if they are broken up and ur friends ok with it.i went out with my friends ex and we've been going out for 4 months.even though i bet circumstances are differnt.idk why i said that.lol

 

[akuroku4ever]

sigh.*points to door* get out...

jeez sorry

you're always supposed to read the first post.
its basic stuff
gtfo

sorry just started =( *is embarressed and leaves**

 

[bond of flames]

no offense but you cant quote right.lol
but its ok.you just started its understandable.
srry bout the GTFO.just wanted to say that.lol