OK well first off to summarize the background. Me and my best friend, friends for about 11 12 years, first love crush whatever we're best friends but recently its been rocky. Well it sorta started when i reazlied this was an unfair friendship. i mean she could come to me for anything from crying to boredom but if i had to go to her it would be a different story. i mean...what? so i told her about it and after assuring her nothing was ending we just need to improve she says its my fault because i seem to not emit any emotion and im like a better listener than talker but..hey i feel liek talking sometimes.....so now we go to here and i was supposed to go to her recital. 10 minutes before she tells me i cant come. so im like oh ok...so i go online i have an email from her saying she found it on her comp and thought id like a laugh. in her story i am her saftey blanket...SAFTELY BLANKET! i didnt know what it meant at first but after i got it im like oh...so im being used (yeah everyone gets used but...this is to much) so i got ticked and have not talked to her for awhile. she says she misses me and such and then figures im mad at her but NEVER asks why im mad. i find that sad because she doesnt even care. SO i seek other advice and i get told some stuff...such as i am insulted about the blanket comment because i have stronger feelings for her then friend and i dont wanna be known as that to her, i dont agree with this psh come on me? like her? haha, or i say blanket is like dog===keeps you safe, warm, go to for comfort and youre practically theirs for their own needs but they say im taking ti wrong that its like i do things for her because i care. so yeah ive been pretty lost lately and dont know what to do. pretty much painful throughout this whole thing but i dont know i thoought some folks around here could lend a bit of guidance? hope this all made sense
>>>>didnt know there was a catgory for these problems! someone please send to the help support place lol sorry<<<
>>>>didnt know there was a catgory for these problems! someone please send to the help support place lol sorry<<<
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