Moving on after heartbreak?



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KingdomKitty90

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So, a while ago I had really strong feelings for a co worker that I was friends with. She didn't feel the same and I ended up getting hurt. I never really got over it. But now, a guy friend of mine has let it be known that he likes me and wants to go out with me. He's a good guy and I can certainly see something happening there, but it's bringing back all these memories and I'm just a bit all over the place right now. I'm meeting him next week for lunch so we can talk, and I'm hoping that's enough time for me to sort my feelings out. Any advice would be appreciated, but I mostly just wanted to get these thoughts out.
 

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If the wounds aren’t healed, then take it slow. Just be yourself at the lunch. Express interest (if you wish) but don’t fall in. Have low expectations, and just have fun.
 

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Be yourself, take it easy if you feel nervous or worried. If you start to, just start taking some deep breaths and relax. Take some time to know each other during lunch. Maybe knowing each other more will help sort some feelings out. And like what Recon said, have fun.
 

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Life goes on. Not everyone is going to like you and you won't like everyone. In the first instance they weren't into you, so what? This new guy is, and you have an opportunity to go have lunch and enjoy yourself. So go have lunch and enjoy yourself.
 

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Applying the law of attraction, when I was single and had taken a year to heal and rediscover who I was, I used the advise from The Secret, I drew a little post it note line drawing of myself with a contented smile on my face being hugged from behind by a man with an equally content smile. It was on my bathroom mirror for years and I made a point of feeling the calm and devoted love of a trusted best friend as I looked upon it and in my meditations.

It worked. It took four years but it worked.

Walk in Beauty










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